When to Start Dating?

UrbanSolace · 2017-09-24T19:09:27+00:00

Don't rush it man! It's different for everyone but I was constantly looking on dating apps and on the hunt for a new woman. Through counseling (awesome idea btw) I figured out that I was just seeking the attention/affection to serve as a crutch. I was trying to fill a hole she left. You have to be 100% cool with yourself and understand what you did wrong (divorce has two sides) so that you don't put the same issues on the new chick. That being said...I'm seeing someone on a off for beers or for a few laughs. Haven't slept with a woman since my divorce because I'm not 100% ready to invite drama back in my life. For the 1st time in a decade I'm feeling good about myself, 100% debt free, and enjoying the little things without inviting complications back in. All the best to you and good luck! Cheers friend!

UrbanSolace · 2017-09-24T19:10:08+00:00

Oh, if she just now served you with papers, I'd definitely stay away from dating for the time being

akfrontier · 2017-09-25T23:37:10+00:00

When you're ready.

It feels really good & self to be with someone else. It feels like shit to get rejected (yet again...)

As long as you're ready for both, go for it!

DCinSEAtown · 2017-09-26T01:39:00+00:00

After you can keep a plant alive for a year. You need to work on you. Don’t go right into another relationship. Put the time in. It takes two to get married and two to get divorced.

Europaenceladus · 2017-09-27T18:10:52+00:00

I'd have a lot of crazy NSA sex as soon as possible, but that's me. Do what makes you happy.

zRaXcPk · 2017-10-02T06:40:58+00:00

Never, go mgtow

reyreydingdong · 2017-10-03T15:20:40+00:00

If you start looking you are going to find something, so you better be prepared for it.

Title	When to Start Dating?
Author	MNCPA
Upvotes	2
Comments	10
Date	September 24, 2017 1:57 PM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/Divorce_Men
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