Wife keeps threatening divorce

Reflog1791 · 2024-03-19T23:44:13+00:00

If you don’t want a divorce, go to gym, get buff, get a haircut, get some new clothes.

If divorce is inevitable, see above.

If you’re just downright scared and confused, see above.

It’ll be ok man I went from the depths of hell to living my best life in a few short years and I wouldn’t take any of it back.

No matter what happens, be the man you want to be. Chase your dreams not your wife’s whims and foul moods.

Due_Promise2866 · 2024-03-19T20:51:46+00:00

Agreed with above comments. She’s already done with you, probably has a side piece. If she’s saying it to your face, she’s doing worse behind your back. Prepare emotionally, start setting a therapist if you need to. Start liquidating any assets you have before it gets legal, Put things in your parents name. I swear to God woman have become so awful in the last 20 years and I’m not saying men are any better.

EnvironmentalAd3558 · 2024-03-19T06:12:19+00:00

She is showing you no respect. You need to respect yourself before you will get any one else’s respect. Do not argue with her or try to bargain with her. Logic will not work. For them it is about the way they feel. And it sounds like she feels that she no longer needs you and that you have been just an ATM for her that way limiting her financially.

It is just a matter of time usually when they act on their threats in one way or another.

It’s time to take control of your life. First consult with a good divorce attorney so that you know your options and what you can expect. Consider filing first with Service being her first notice that divorce proceedings have started.

Get and read No More Mr Nice Guy.

Is0prene · 2024-03-19T05:50:20+00:00

You should make plans to divorce her. Because that is what she is doing right now. She has already emotionally withdrawn herself from the relationship, she is now making preparations to gut you as deep as she possibly can. Get a lawyer and protect yourself and your future parenting time as best you can. Do not move out of the house. Record everything so that you can disprove the fake DV/RO that will come. Its number 1 on the playbook for them.

bluephotoshop · 2024-03-19T02:30:04+00:00

Consider filing yourself. Lock down your own finances. Consult with divorce lawyers to determine your options. Consider what sort of custody sharing you want.
First consults are usually free.

Title	Wife keeps threatening divorce
Author	Kornfan76
Upvotes	1
Comments	7
Date	March 18, 2024 9:34 PM UTC (2 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/Divorce_Men
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/Divorce_Men/comments/1bi2o96/wife_keeps_threatening_divorce/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/Divorce_Men/wife-keeps-threatening-divorce.1426569 https://theredarchive.com/post/1426569

Comments