Any hint for stop being a virgin?

Cruztd23 · 2020-06-05T22:06:17+00:00

Stop having wandering eyes all the time, get about your own business, and realize your worth is only determined by the number of woman you sleep with if you allow it.

Woman are much more interested in a guy who’s actually doing something instead of chasing ass.

SaperER · 2020-06-06T12:44:49+00:00

I was a virigin until I was 25. It wasn't that I was physically unnatractive or uninterested in women. Far from it in fact.

But my personality is that of an introvert + my main source of entertainment was videogames and Dungeons and Dragons. The girl I had sex for the first time actually saw me playing DnD, thought I was cute and messaged me on FB. From there, I took the initiative and asked her out (knowing at that time a little about pick up from books).

She asked me after a few weeks of dating what sexual history I had (casually), and she thought that I had a lot of one night stands. I remember thinking at that point and being anxious about her thinking that I was somehow defective or her worried about me having a small dick and a bunch of other silly worries.

But, I reasoned that this was a great test. If she was upset or turned off by my inexperience, then I wouldn't have wanted to be in a relationship with her.

So, I told the truth. She found it difficult to believe (which was flattering really) but she wasn't bothered by it at all. In fact, she felt much more at ease since she didn't have any worries about her meeting my expectations. We stayed together for 3 years, only ending our relationship after I had to move to a different country.

Oh and when I was playing DnD, I wasn't the DM. I was a player. So always being the "alpha" of the group is not necessary, as TRP would have you believe.

My advice to you is socialize more. Even if it is just something as nerdy as DnD. That bare minimum of social interaction was enough for me. Imagine what you could do if you say volunteered, joined an art class or took a dancing or cooking class.

CanadianTurt1e · 2020-06-05T21:32:14+00:00

If being a virgin is getting to your head to the point where its' making you feel useless/depressed/unwanted/etc, then go find a prostitute. Get that weight of virginity off your shoulders. After you've done that, go out and talk to women. Don't have a goal of getting your dick wet. Just go out and talk to all kinds of women. Women that are ugly, beautiful, fat, skinny, old, young-adult, etc. Just talk to them with the sole intention of friendship. Once you've gotten comfortable enough to the point where you can be around women without being nervous, then you can experiment with the dating game and explore the idea of flirting, etc.

Start off with baby steps. But first and foremost, get yourself a hooker.

yulemguysmmoja · 2020-06-07T16:41:18+00:00

First get a purpose. Then approach each interaction with the girl genuinely. No tricks or games, no gimmicks or no hidden agenda.

MrMediocre123 · 2020-08-27T01:15:44+00:00

20 bucks and a short trip to a bus station, bud

2020-06-05T18:21:20+00:00

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2020-06-06T00:17:18+00:00

There’s no way to tell if a man is a virgin or not so you can just fake it till you make it.

Title	Any hint for stop being a virgin?
Author	Gstpcosta
Upvotes	1
Comments	25
Date	June 5, 2020 6:16 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/ExRedPill
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