Hello all, just discovered this sub pretty conveniently after my situation.
The story: I have been looking for a girl to have a romantic relationship with, and have a commitment with. I started talking to a girl 2 weeks ago after she showed a surprising amount of interest. Since I am extremely new to dating, I was naive enought to think red pill girls didn't exist. Things with this girl were going alright as the weeks went by, however I was always putting in way more effort than what was received by me. About 2 days ago a mutual friend between me and her talked to me about the woman she truly is (mutual friend hates RP approaches and was really looking out for me). Our friend said that all she does is every few months she gets waves of dudes to give her attention and sex. Eventually the outcome is the same for them where they feel used and heartbroken. Really glad I never got to that point. Since this revelation I (feel like I) have taken control and stopped talking to her. I have not given her a reason for it; I just don't want to play her game.
My question or thought: Do you think a RP user will approach relationships in a toxic way like this forever? She hasn't hurt me in any way so far, other than the fact that out intentions dont allign. Should I give her a chance? I would only do this if she decided to show me respect or that I was something of value to her. If I'm going to be honest I don't think she is good relationship material (as of now), but is it bad for me to think she could be in the future? I am not going to shame her for fucking around at a young age, I just dont want to be seen as another guy to her. I also think most of the guys she has been with has a MGTOW attitude. I would be willing to talk with her about it and try and work something out, but only if I was a man of value to her.
Where I am at now: I haven't invested much with this girl in our short 2 weeks, but we find each other really attractive. Apparently I'm her ideal type. Now that I know shes a thot, I kinda plan to treat her like one. If she becomes a nice and respectable women, I will treat her like one also. I am moving on and going my own direction, but I wanted to hear more thoughts on these types of women. Also now that I know she sees me as an object I kinda view her the same way too now, (im dtf basically).
TL;DR Girl who uses TRP almost played her game with me. I uno reversed the situation and am moving on. Still unsure about my opinion on her though.
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