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degeT_sTy · 2021-12-30T12:13:57+00:00

As a female virgin hoping to marry another virgin couldn't agree more.

samanthamolina · 2021-12-30T21:41:54+00:00

As a 23 years old woman who is a virgin, I find men that have slept with a large number of women very repulsive. They think that the number of partners that a man has had in the past does not matter, but that is false. Men that have slept with a lot of women in the past see women as sex objects, they use women for sex, and they do not respect women. Because of that, they develop personalities that are extremely unpleasant. I would never date a man that has slept with a lot of women in the past because I cannot trust him. If he used women for sex in the past there is a high chance that he will do the same to me. Men that have slept with a lot of women in the past tend to be cheaters, which is not good for serious relationships. In addition to that, once a man slept with a lot of women and showed that he just sees women as objects, I cannot respect him anymore and if I do not respect him, I cannot love him. I have never had a boyfriend and I only plan to have one if I can find a man who is a virgin by choice.

I do not understand why some people think that a man who is a virgin is "low value." That is ridiculous. A man that is a virgin by choice is a man that respects women and a man that would never use a woman as an object. That is a high-quality man and someone like that deserves to be respected and admired, and that is the kind of man that I want to marry.

thetruthishere_ · 2021-12-31T04:33:45+00:00

I lost my virginity to another virgin...

Environmental-Row979 · 2021-12-30T21:11:43+00:00

As someone who is attracted to and dates people across the gender spectrum, I truly do not care how many people my partner has been intimate with before me (provided they have taken appropriate precautions for safer sex and are upfront with me about any STI risks).

Since I’m pushing 40 myself, it’s been quite some time since I was with someone who was completely sexually inexperienced, but when I think of the men/masc. folks I’ve been with, the less experienced ones were often better lovers since they had fewer preconceptions about what I wanted and were more inclined just to ask me what I enjoyed.

Honestly, if a dude brags about his sexual prowess, my automatic assumption is that he probably sucks in bed.

ETA: In my experience, people become better lovers through multiple encounters with the SAME person (or people!). And that means you’re not racking up as many new partners.

RabbitNRaccoon · 2021-12-31T14:05:51+00:00

Women who like excitement, emotional rollercoasters, drama, attention, risky sex etc are turned off by virgins.

The red pill focuses on a very specific archetype of women. And those women make up a decent portion of females in Western countries. But they are by no means all women. They are just usually extroverted, hypersexual so they stand out more.

I would say a more chill, introverted, girl who doesn't like all that extra shit women these days do wouldn't have any problem with a male virgin or man with a low count.

I've noticed alot of men "playing" with the wrong kind of women for them. That's where alot of their disappointment comes from. A male capybara ain't got no business hanging around female leopards no matter how sexy they are. And when one inevitably takes a bite out of his ass, he runs away crying.

I think most people will be accepted by those people in their same lane. And rejected and ridiculed by those outside of their lane.

So it's best to stay in your own lane with people who value what you value.

FlakyImpact5838 · 2021-12-31T22:09:57+00:00

I think you’re right on, but let me talk about when you said that although women may not a virgin man or a hookup, a relationship would be different. The thing is that TRP is not designed for men to be in long-lasting, healthy relationships. It teaches men to “spin plates” as they call it, or switch between multiple women for dating and sex. Not saying you’re wrong or anything here, but TRP does encourage a mix of short term dating and “pump-and-dump.” Relationships made vos TRP aren’t made to last.

I do think it’s silly that TRP preaches that a man with a higher notch count will be treated like Jesus by many women. Being a lady killer isn’t the kind of man every woman wants. Unfortunately, a lot of insecure women fall for TRP men that manipulate them into the bedroom. These guys can be weird.

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