How old were you when you left the red pill?

Party-Chance-4125 · 2023-05-24T18:40:52+00:00

happened just a few months ago, and I'm 18 rn, honestly tho I was never fully into that space.

I am currently in a 3-year-old relationship,( since even before I knew about what red pill even meant). The reason I never believed in all of it was, because my personal experiences spoke a totally different tale, than the redpill community did. Before the relationship, I was very average looking, with no great muscular physique or anything, and it had no role to play for my partner to pick that as a reason to date me. It just happened because we liked each other's company and that should probably be the reason why most relationships work. I started to work on myself about an year back, started calisthenics, got into the "redpill space" , i definitely was starting to get influenced by the things being said for the worse, but i got the wake-up call pretty early on, as my girlfriend pointed it out, that my behavior was changing, which stopped me from dwelling into it further. During this time i used to consume a ton and ton of hamza/ andrew tate type content which definitely gave me a very toxic and insecure view of the world , the "everybody is out to get you, and you gotta wake up and fight the matrix". I think the only good thing that this redpill/ self improvement space gave me was that the reason i started working out was to feel better in the body i have, and not to use it to get woman.

In the present, i just don't believe any of that alpha/beta bs and it just makes life so much better and i don't feel the need to think whether the things I'm doing is alpha or beta

ViceLord52 · 2023-05-24T20:10:45+00:00

I was 22M when I officially left, I went through a difficult breakup process used anger and hatred as a coping mechanism and the red pill fueled that anger and hatred. Eventually I swallowed my pride and went to therapy to discover healthier coping mechanisms.

TLMoore93 · 2023-05-24T11:01:29+00:00

I'm 29F and of course being female it's going to be different for me but I was red pill for some time in my early to mid 20s, maybe until around 26. Social media played a big part in me coming to my senses. Any time I'd try and offer my support to men's rights groups they'd slag me off and act like I don't belong there. They don't want to change anything, and they certainly don't want equality and support, they just want a male version of neo feminism.

ColdSnickersBar · 2023-05-24T13:35:46+00:00

I’ve never been redpilled. I’m here to give some positive support to my fellow lads that are looking to leave the redpill stuff and hopefully help them have a soft landing.

ThreeArmedYeti · 2023-05-24T16:58:47+00:00

Soft-Neat8117 · 2023-05-24T23:54:50+00:00

It's tough to say because even before I became "Redpilled", I still agrees with many of the points they espoused. Hell, even now there are still parts of the Redpill I agree with.

I didn't officially start consuming Redpill content until around mid-2020, when I was 24. And I quit around November-December-ish of that same year, right before I turned 25.

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Fivefootfiveangel · 2023-05-25T01:25:51+00:00

Around 21

sturgeo123 · 2023-05-27T15:52:40+00:00

I got into it when I was 20 and started to lose interest when I was 21. I would say I didn’t fully get out of it until I was 22 because I still consumed some manosphere content up until then but it was seeing how lame and goofy the fresh and fit/Andrew Tate crowd was that ultimately made me stop messing with that community.

darkfoxjj · 2023-05-25T22:35:25+00:00

What is your definition of the red pill? Dating works differently for males and females. Females get way more attention and are attracted to status/power. Males to youthfulness/fertility.

Obviously generally speaking.

Title	How old were you when you left the red pill?
Author	Due-Play2374
Upvotes	16
Comments	13
Date	May 24, 2023 10:15 AM UTC (3 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/ExRedPill
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