It´s the "human nature" argument. What made me quit redpill was that I realised that it violates my nature by expecting me to Love or provide for toxic people.

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The base for my escape was simply the fact that I wouldn´t be able to be content with what redpill preaches, like ever. No matter how hard I would try, I would never be content with it. And I thought to myself, if redpill violates my nature and the nature of men and women is supposed to be compatible then... does it mean it violates "female nature" as well ?

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Also I just hate the idea of "human nature" in general. Like bruh, shaddup. Who´s a bigger authority on what human nature is other than me ? I am very in touch with my feelings. Which is something you can´t say about Alexander Grace, who loves using the term "human nature" as an excuse to avoid confronting his feelings because he himself admitted that he´s uncomfortable with doing that. So since I am in touch with my feelings, I am very in touch with my nature. And I know for a fact I would never in the entirety of my life provide for a woman that redpillers are describing. So, I took it upon myself that I will understand women through understanding myself. I got in touch with my romantic feelings and thought about what I would be willing to do for a woman and most importantly, what kind of a woman I would be willing to do it for. I would be willing to protect her, I would be willing to provide for her, I would be willing to make her happy but only under the conditions that she would be able to Love me, that we would share the same values and that she would be generally a Good person.

This realisation made me realise that actually, my feelings are compatible with "female hypergamy". The idea I could make my crush happy gave me drive and motivation to want to improve.

So I was like, if the idea of a woman loving me and being loyal to me can make me unstoppable then... Then it means I understand the "human nature" more than any redpiller out there. Because if we were back in the dark ages and I would have to defend my tribe from some redpillers, I would do so by telling them compliments and they would fold in front of me like a piece of paper, crying how none ever told them that. Not to mention, they wouldn´t be even able to find the motivation to protect their tribe because they think that all the people in it a aholes.

Where as, regardless of how well I would be fairing physically, I would be driven by empathy and honest desire to protect that which I Love and no amout of pain would stop me from fulfilling my duty. Because that´s just how insanely motivated I felt, when I left the redpill.

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I don´t understand why everyone is sabotaging themselves. Do you really think you would be able to do anything back in the day with this mindset ? Oh yeah, all the women hate me, I better protect them. Yeah, good fcking luck.
You guys are totally on the side of evolution.

So in conclusion. The entirety of redpill is wrong because it violates my masculine nature. And I would call myself a very (mostly) emotionally mature person. And if it violates my masculine nature, it violates the feminine nature as well.

I believe redpill content creators are shallow, emotionally immature, underdeveloped children who can only observe patterns in other gender´s behavior but are incapable of justifying or finding the reason for why they act that way. Yes, it works... in all the worst ways possible. It´s tools for emotionally immature people.

Another thing I hate about this is that simply accepting that "men and women are different" implies you can´t understand the other gender. But I believe that part of becoming a mature adult is understanding the opposite gender.
Besides, choosing to not understand women means you will not be able to tell healthy and toxic femininity apart and you will be more likely to get manipulated by misandrists.
I really think there is a lot of wrong with the "female nature" and "human nature" statement. It is a concept created by people who are completely out of touch with their feelings.
Human nature are your feelings. Like what fcking else would it be ? And in order to be happy you need to reach emotional maturity, which certainly isn´t something redpill content creators are teaching. Redpill content creators are telling you to repress your most vital feelings.

We must not repress each other. We must learn how to live in harmony with each other and the way to do that is by respecting our own feelings, first and foremost.

The reason why men and women don´t get along nowdays is because they´re both emotionally immature. And scratching off the other gender as "just human nature" isn´t helping it, because it enables that emotional immaturity.