One major insight I just had right now , although pretty obvious but been oblivious to it due to unconscious identification with the thought pattern.

A) Redpill is like giving a women a map or a plan to seduce the guy by being a perfect woman.

Redpill makes you want to be perfect. It’s a blueprint effective depending on what stage of life you are in but it’s a double edged sword. The knowledge comes with diminishing returns. Let’s say you’re fucked up in general in life , you read trp you get a confidence and drive to improve you life from being a lazy kid playing video games and eating junk five times a week to a normal healthy and balanced guy, so that it’s indirect affect is with your improved attention from girls. You get good results because you start feeling good and you mistake trp for some holy bible when taking care yourself is pretty basic and obvious reason to you newfound sense of well-being.

It’s all downhill from there , the more you read and intellectualise , you chase perfection.

Think about it would you want to be with a woman who is 100 percent what you want , I’m not going to give a cliche answer and say no, of course you’d want her ! But would you give up on her if she’s 70 percent of what you desire. If she’s not the epitome of feminism (analogous to what manosphere focuses on , being the alpha or whatever the fuck that is ).

You become neurotic , self obsessed narcissist….🥁🥁🥁🥁without even knowing it. Thanks to the trp theme of the world being oblivious to the greater truth you become a covert narcissist.

You give meaning to your pointless suffering , call yourself redpilled, sleep around with all the low self esteem women you can find , up your n count post it on trp get upvotes, controversies,fights with keyboard warriors, at the end of the day feeling miserable with yourself. But you justify all that misery by saying you know what others don’t.

The first chapter I read on the rational male was oneitis and I am indebt to rollo for that because that shifted and shaked me as a man but the stronger the emotional response was the stronger I stared believing in trp. Something as obvious as don’t have an unhealthy attachment to one single girl was presented to me in such a way that I felt like part of a tribe that was gonna salve all them men in The so called blue pilled world headed for a crash

B) Second big thing is , trp teaches your behaviour that a non needy man normally possesses.

Trp wants you to have the though pattern of a non needy man yet not teaching how to actually be non needy. Although at places trp does mention that neediness is the opposite of attraction but it’s all in bits and pieces.

It doesn’t tell you that you’re scared of women and it’s Normal and you should act besides it (embrace it ) because the anxiety arises from your previously held beliefs and values which dictate your behaviour and it’s easy to be a guy who doesn’t just get with risk than to try and fail ton of times until you get good at it by being a genuine man (mansons law of avoidance)

Trp teaches you to be successful and presents success as a solution to all your women problems but it fails to mention 1) success is largely defined by each person and you must decide what success for you is , use a genuine measuring principles as you go along your way , rather than copying someone else’s idea of success and suffering for that arbitrary goal that you took up from someone else and again , justifying it by saying it’s what you need , the painful the better. 2) the biggest factor they miss is to tell you how slow success ans growth is. No one tells the virtue of patience. It’s like here , success is the answer amd men obviously start looking for shortcuts to their perceived idea or notion of what success is.

It leads to pursuit of success out of insecurity which pretty much sucks 24 / 7 because for one you’re chasing some arbitrary goal that you didn’t set for yourself ,rather took it from some random dude who claims to have slept with 200 women. If he says he’s been doing good with business and you’re an arts student , you start to question your whole life decisions upto this point , “fuck I should’ve gone to buisness school !”

C) The redpill makes you wanna belove that men are inherently emotionless creatures whose goal is to only have sex aka spread his seed ( as the evolutionary biologists with a google search degree claim ).

Men become oblivious to their emotional needs. Emotions is beta as they say.

I’ve had a fwb relationship and at one point I caught feelings for her , I spun a plate she found out , she slept with someone else , it broke me. Trp taught ne this is beta. I picked myself back together thinking of myself as the alpha she fucks which might be true but i was being blind to the fact that I have feelings of her. We continue fwb to this day and lately I’ve realised how much it has affected me. I have become a shallow superficial pussy chaser and I wonder hey genuine girls don’t reciprocate me and only the needy ones do.

I have decided to stop lying to myself about the fwb situation. I need to satisfy my emotional part, you need to too! Don’t fall in the trap of believing men aren’t emotional , above all don’t need to satisfy emotional needs. We do. While being overly emotional and needy is a sign of insecurity and implies non attractiveness, being healthily emotional is required and important otherwise the alpha stoic behaviour will start creeping up in other aspects of your life. You’ll become a stone cold sociopath which might sound awesome since you’re shielded to the misery and uncertainty if you r life but feeling is what makes us human. I would much rather learn to manage my feelings than to become apathic.