The one thing that's painfully obvious is when Red Piller "coaches" talk about "crazy" chicks and how to exploit them and their issues. The problem being that many of these "crazy" chicks are actually trauma survivors and whether you like it or not, many people who experience trauma have shit wrong with their brains and you, by utilizing the tricks taught by Red Pill actually make her worse than she was to start off with (Red Pill tricks causes her to have constant fear-based responses which is bad mmmkay).

That's right, you make it worse for yourself by using Red Pill tricks.

If you want to stop being controlled by the bullshit fear tactics these bullshit "coaches" use for marketing, then take the time to learn about what trauma does to our brains (both men and women experience similar issues, like: dysregulation with emotions, dissociation, isolation, avoidance, etc.).

When you become more and more informed with proper information (and not some chucklefuck-turned-teacher's interpretation), especially from healthy and scientifically factual people that have degrees and licenses in the proper field of study, then you become less and less susceptible to the emotional blackmail and sensationalism that many "coaches" use to sell you a product or service.

If you're serious about learning how to properly be with a woman (or man) with trauma, then start with The Body Keeps Score book. This will give you real information regarding trauma (theirs and even your own), how it's dealt with within a person's body, etc. But before you even try to tame trauma survivors, you need to learn how to define and enforce your boundaries. If you don't learn boundaries first, you're going to get steamrolled into submission.

Don't be a tool. Get off these bullshit channels, help yourself learn how to truly be a better man by listening to actual respectable men. I guarantee that you'll earn better quality women who will have a desire to also earn you.