The first step to getting an ex back from someone who actually got their ex back after going to divorce court.

You have to kill your family.

No I don’t mean to literally chase them around the house with an axe yelling “Here’s Johnny”

I mean you have to kill the ideals and visions all aspects you have about your family that were in the past, and in the future.

I say this because those things lead to hope and hope right now is not in your present reality.

What is in your present reality is that you my fallen fellow man, have lost your family.

And you being the flawed human you are, most likely caused some of the reason for that loss.

And if you are about to or had to hire a lawyer, that loss in this present moment is permanent.

Thus you can toss hope out the window for it will only lead you to remove yourself from the present and live in the past or future which are delusions, dreams and cause nothing but emotional turmoil and bad judgement.

The reality is the only moment you can change is the here and now.

And to focus on the here and now you have to kill Hope.

But how do you truly kill hope when it comes to family?

Well what’s the one thing that has no hope in family related issues?

What is the one thing that is final and unchangeable without drastic transformation?

Death.

Yes, Death is the final act in which all hope in a physical reality sense is lost.

And it is through death that we are going to be operating to get your family back.

Because it’s not you who are going to kill your family.

No. No. No.

It is you who are going to act like your family has died and all they currently remember you by is the man that they wanted to leave in every way imaginable.

And it’s through that drive of honouring your family through their death and redeeming yourself in their heavenly eyes that you are going to act to bring them back from the ashes.

But you are not going to change for them.

No you are going to change for you in honour of them.

Everything you do from now on is for you because of them.

They showed you the way.

But you took the first step on the road a little too late.

Now, through their death, lies the key to your salvation in becoming the man they are proud to call their rock, their superman, their father, their husband, their King.

So rest easy fallen King.

How’s the time to pick up your sword off the ground and rise from the ashes to fight for all that you lost.

And as you do so, remember this.

The first step you take off the ground id the start of your redemption arch.