The Gottmans (a couple who are psychologists)created created the couples lab where they have pinpointed with 90+% accuracy which couples would stay together and which would break up.

The main four reasons they cited are termed (with good reason) the four horsemen of the relationship apocalypse.

These are…

1: Defensiveness

2: Contempt

3: Stone walling

4: Criticism.

That said I would argue some others should also be here.

5: Resentment.

6: Ungratefulness.

Just to name a few.

What are some traits you saw in prior relationships that led to the end of one in yours or others lives you know.

Sound off below.