[https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Misogyny](Definition of misogyny):

Misogyny is hatred of, contempt for, or prejudice against women or girls. It is a form of sexism that is used to keep women at a lower social status than men, thus maintaining the social roles of patriarchy. Misogyny has been widely practised for thousands of years. [..] Misogyny also often operates through sexual harassment, coercion, and psychological techniques aimed at controlling women, and by legally or socially excluding women from full citizenship. In some cases, misogyny rewards women for accepting an inferior status.

Now let's look at some of the official Red Pill doctrine. I've been careful only to choose material explicitly endorsed by TRP, prominently linked in places like the subreddit sidebar. I've cut some words to keep the quotes short and sweet (all this shit reads like a ponderous, pseudo-intellectual manifesto), but tried to play fair with context. The full texts are linked, so if anyone objects to my edits, just say so.

From "Managing Your Bitches," an officially endorsed Red Pill guide:

In order to sustain a prosperous relationship with a girl, you MUST be comfortable with bossing her around - being a bonafide Patriarch™[,] even against a flood of her tears. Why? Because ultimately, women get their behavioural cues from men. Remember, women are children: mentally, behaviourally, evolutionarily. They are not like us. They don’t think like us, or have the same deep sense of personal responsibility. Even the most sociopathic man will intuitively know when he has crossed a boundary and offended another man. Whether or not he feels guilty about it is a different issue, but he at least knows he’s done something wrong. [Unless] you are strict with your girl, she will become as selfish and insufferable as you let her get away with.

And this is from "The Manipulated Man", a Red Pill e-book length manifesto of misogynist mental gymnastics:

WHAT IS WOMAN? [A woman is] a human being who does not work [..] Women do not use their mental capacity: they deliberately let it disintegrate. After a few years of sporadic training, they revert to a state of irreversible mental torpor [..] Theoretically it is possible for a beautiful woman to have less intelligence than a chimpanzee and still be considered an acceptable member of society. By the age of twelve at the latest, most women have decided to become prostitutes. Or, to put it another way they have planned a future for themselves which consists of choosing a man and letting him do all the work [in return for which the man receives] use of their vagina at certain given intervals.

One of man's worst mistakes [is to] assume that woman is his equal [..] Men seem incapable of realizing that women entirely lack ambition, [..] emotion - love, hate, or malice - she is bound to the man who works for her. [..] Women make ideal living companions for each other. Their feelings and instincts are retarded at the same primitive level. [Man] has intelligence as well as beauty.[..] The mere fact that [women] are so much less intelligent than men is enough to contradict such a conception, for a stupid person can never be thought of as beautiful unless judged on the purely physical level. If [man] had not done so, women would hardly fit into the group Homo sapiens.

Woman's greatest ideal is a life without work or responsibility - yet who leads such a life but a child? A child with appealing eyes, a funny little body with dimples and sweet layers of baby fat and clear, taut skin - that darling miniature of an adult. [..] A woman with feelings would have to think and work[..] Still, as her emotions are always faked and never felt, she can keep a clear head.

That's not some "fringe" Red Pill comment. It's standard TRP doctrine they encourage you to read to understand women and men.

Women, according to TRP, are stupid, manipulative babies, incapable of anything except coldly pitting men against their own insecurities, to keep them desperately providing for their wives and girlfriends, who should literally be considered a sub-species of homo sapiens at best, but men are just too sweet and kind to label them as such.

(Yet somehow, men have mostly been too stupid to do anything about it, for thousands of years. Because we're just too sweet and idealistic and nice and accommodating to catch on.)

And of course, the best for last. "Dread Game":

She knows she's replaceable. She knows you actually most likely are out fucking other women, even when you fraudulently assure her you're not, with a grin on your face. She will hate and desire you simultaneously. Your indifference will drive her fucking mental. She will give you her body as both a token of her appreciation for understanding her primal needs, and as a desperate attempt to reel you in and secure you, in order to fulfill her imperative which is to beta-ize you and move on to the next male.

Having this mindset has personally manifested in these behaviors of mine with my plates and STR's;

  • Regularly ignore phone calls (I simply don't care)
  • Regularly disappear for days on end (I don't need to explain anything)
  • Regularly fuck, speak to and flirt with other women (I am a man)
  • Constantly trivialize emotional discussion/shit tests (I don't care because I'm not invested nor operating within a female frame)
  • Call her out on her shit, tell her she's wrong, argue with her for the sake of it (drama injection, create fights for the fun of it)
  • Instigate pointless fights (bored, enjoy seeing her hamster)
  • Act completely indifferent/disinterested in person (am usually disinterested outside of bedroom anyway)
  • Occasionally reject sex (nuclear, advanced level and only to be used sparingly)

I balance these natural behaviors with forced, fraudulent and acted necessary comfort such as; - Spontaneous, almost psychotic declarations of desire - Listening to her problems and pretending to care - Ridiculous, over the top compliments - Fucking her to the best of my ability - Pretending she is unique/special - Periodically entertaining the idea of becoming exclusive

My favorite bit is the parenthetical in "Occasionally reject sex (nuclear, advanced level and only to be used sparingly)". It's stunning how absolutely obsessed with sexual access TRP dudes are. "If all else fails, consider the nuclear — hear me out guys! I'm saying nuclear — option: not getting laid... on purpose. I know! I know! I'm a mad man! But sometimes, push really comes to shove, you gotta NOT fuck a bitch today, if you wanna not NOT fuck a bitch all next week. You know?"

The only notable "disagreement" in this thread was from one guy who everyone concluded was unwittingly running "natural dread" because he was just that alpha.

I've usually got a thick skin, but this part made me extremely sad: She will hate and desire you simultaneously. Your indifference will drive her fucking mental. She will give you her body as both a token of her appreciation for understanding her primal needs, and as a desperate attempt to reel you in and secure you, in order to fulfill her imperative which is to beta-ize you and move on to the next male

That’s the saddest, loneliest-sounding relationship I can imagine having. I'm still close to most of the women I've been in love with, and I can’t imagine how betrayed (and super fucking confused) they’d feel to learn our earnest arguments or confusions were actually a calculated “strategy” for... more sex? (I can count on one hand the number of times I recall an ex turning down sex, anyway. So this would be extra bizarre.) How pathetically insecure do you have to be to keep half of your real self hidden from someone you supposedly love and trust, just because you're that afraid of heartbreak and dead bedrooms?

Ironically, this sort of pathological deception is what Red Pill accuses all women of doing, and claims they can’t even help it! Which leads us to a final, poignant observation that even Red Pillers themselves have no rational basis to disagree with.

I urge anyone who feels drawn in by Red Pill dogma to consider the following carefully, because it's not based on speculation or opinion. It's just taking TRP at its own word.

If the Red Pill is wrong about women being naturally incapable of idealized, non-transactional love, and honest commitment, then that means every “red-pilled alpha” running game/dread game is the only one not playing fair in his relationship.

Because remember, TRP teaches that "sexual strategy is amoral":

[Understand] that morality is not a constant nor objective, and some people have determined a different set of rules will best maximize their success or happiness. If they break our rules, we determine it to be detrimental to our own survival, because we depend on the social contract to exist ourselves! So we punish murderers. It adds disincentive to breaking our moral code. And I'm fine with that. Here's where things get a bit hairy. If my mating strategy is to dismiss a maximum number of potential mates (hypergamy), and I tell people certain mating strategies are immoral, then I can get other people to agree to it. But what happens if this framework isn't based on a contract that benefits all who participate? [Women's] mating strategy is contingent on beta's failures, and our strategy is based on theirs to fail! Therefore there is no common social contract that we can commit to that benefits both genders. [..] Sexual strategy is amoral.

That's official Red Pill doctrine. It's okay to lie, manipulate, and confuse your girlfriend or wife into having more sex and staying with you, because she's 100% definitely already running her own "hypergamy scam" on you.

But... If women are just people, doing their best in life and relationships just like “blue pilled” men, and you run “amoral” TRP techniques on a woman you claim to love, then you’re the asshole. Unequivocally. Seems like that’s at least worth thinking very carefully about.