After having a breakdown at work from my social blunders I somehow came across /r/foreveralone and alot of forever alone askreddit threads for the first time. While they don't claim to be an incel or redpill community I noticed that alot of the posts seem to harbor the same level of toxicty and crabs in a bucket mentality, with some posts such as "are you good looking? it doesnt matter how good your social skills are?" I don't really know where I am trying to go with this post but honestly this is the type of stuff that really gets me jaded, as I used to get literally zero attention from women but after going to the gym for the past three years I notice a significant amount of more interest and even losing my virginity as a result. But even with these factors I can't seem to shake off the fact that most of this interest is purely due to physical attractiveness as I have a hard time relating to people and social interaction is a god damn energy sinkhole for me, but I somehow have mroe people talking to me and more interest in me because of gym. Sometimes I have the feeling in the back of my head that I got lucky with my looks and that others are just doomed to be alone like the people in that sub no matter how hard they work. I dont know if this is the right place to post this or not and I dont know what I am really fishing for rather than to vent.