What made u decide to leave redpill?

Lumpy_Secret_6359 · 2025-03-24T13:13:51+00:00

I learnt more about feminism, realised how oppressive red pill is to women, how it only serves men and is disguised as helping both genders

Personal_Dirt3089 · 2025-03-24T19:57:04+00:00

It was a very obvious grift, and I have been through other grifts. It also starts off pretending to be about doing better with women, then quickly turns into trying to convince you that women are constantly scheming to harm you. It then loops into a bunch of ways to convince you that you will never be happy, and thay you have to keep coming back to redpill.

KingKunta2-D · 2025-03-24T10:20:44+00:00

A couple caveats. I was already pretty liberal from a starting point for reasons. And I was more Black pill then red pill.

When the talking points went from You're going to die alone life's not fair for nobody. And started going in a right-wing direction about Tyrone's and A bunch of individualist super capitalist kind of stuff. I was kind of turned off to it. Thankfully I was also watching hasanabi at the time as a part of my media diet.

Another point was it was so clearly mean to women. Not just critical of their free choice of them always choosing bad guys who would cheat on them and then they would complain about later. While the whole time it being their own fault. That was a big turn off too

DecisionPlastic9740 · 2025-03-24T11:43:24+00:00

When the grifters took over. I don't like what it's turned into.

Vast-Worry8935 · 2025-03-28T05:00:54+00:00

It's toxic to the soul and mind, and it treats women as subspecies and not humans. Plus, Redpillers genuinely don't care nor have empathy for other men who struggle in life. Also, excuses of being a shit person and "spin plates" with other women, but heaven forbid if she has any self-respect and doesn't put up with that nonsense.

Technical_Weather_37 · 2025-06-28T11:42:59+00:00

I was never fully in. I did agree with a lot on self improvements like fitness, diet, dealing with depression, loneliness, and interacting with women. It has helped me in a lot of ways, like increased confidence, healing my 🌽 addiction, and setting goals for my life.

However, I definitely don't agree with the messages regarding women. In my experience, I am friends with a lot of women, and none of them possess the personalities, behaviour, or mindsets that many red pill gurus preach about. I believe that they described women like these who are involved in degenerate lifestyles like sugar babies, OF models, escorts, and women who peaked in high school having a mid-life crisis case (these are the types of women they teach to attract in the end and are surrounded in their circles) and often at times feed insecurities into young men who are already in or wanting to start relationships.

I also don't agree with this opposition to school. I personally believe that a basic high school degree is important as it provides some surface for you to at least survive in the world. You need it as a backup just in case you don't succeed in what you want to pursue.

Another thing is that it takes you down an alt right pipeline by feeding your insecurities and making you a bitter, hateful person.

Title	What made u decide to leave redpill?
Author	Sufficient_Ferret367
Upvotes	13
Comments	12
Date	March 24, 2025 8:41 AM UTC (1 year ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/ExRedPill
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