I often see that people say passion is sexy or attractive. Same with intelligence. I'm just not really sure how that correlates

I see things that say passionate people are hot, people with niche interests are hot. I've seen some women say that when a guy goes on a long-winded rant about something very specific they become more attracted to them

I also see jokes and memes about guys who ramble about their own insignificant interests to women and how it isn't attractive. Similar to this meme it's seen as evasive and worthy of mockery

I don't find intelligence or passion to be that sexy. It's just not something I ever consider to be in the realms of sexy or even to do with sex. Like someone going on a long, passionate diatribe about their hobby doesn't make me want to have sex with them. I just don't get really get it

Honestly I'm just not a super passionate or inteligent person and it just makes me worried I'm not attractive because of it. I'm just much more laidback about things and don't have a lot of passion due to baseline depression. I'm also just not a smart person in general. I don't see either of those things as being bad or unattractive, in fact I'd be very attracted to someone with a similar attitutde to mine