You got it wrong

sagrata · 2021-12-08T10:20:40+00:00

You can be red pill aware and still be married or have gf’s you just dont get hurt if they screw you over or at least you can c why

Don't you think it is at least a little bit toxic to be in a constant state of paranoia over people who are close to you betraying you? Wouldn't it be suspicious or toxic if someone told you to be in a constant state of distrust and paranoia over your male friends betraying you, claiming that it is their nature? Do red-pillers apply this framework to their relationships to their male friends or to the other people in the red-pill community?

And beeing masculine is a good thing

I am pretty sure there are no one in the ex-red-pill community or even among broader feminists that claim masculinity to be an absolute evil. As long as it is your gender expression, as in how you like to express yourself as someone who identifies as a man, it is fine. If it enters to territory of abuse, toxicity, misogyny and such other horrific things, then it becomes harmful.

If you are toxic in the sake of masculinity, that is a problem. If you are toxic in the sake of, say, literally anything else, that is also a problem. There are a lot of ways you can be masculine and a good, reliable person. Red-pill is not the way though. Trust goes both ways, constant distrust (and usually disrespect) towards a gender will not make you a reliable person in the eyes of the members of that gender.

Male_Inkling · 2021-12-08T11:14:05+00:00

Redpill is toxic masculinity in a nutshell.

What means being masculine, anyway?

cunningcaring · 2021-12-08T11:54:33+00:00

You got it wrong. Masculinity is a good thing. Red pill is a blame women for all your problems thing.

My_IQ_is_60 · 2021-12-08T10:17:44+00:00

And beeing masculine is a good thing

Agreed. Masculinity is a good thing. Which is why women should start embracing more masculine traits and aesthetics. If masculinity is so good why should it only be enjoyed by one gender?

This is a joke by the way. Well kinda... Because I'd love to see more masculine women

clutchwifi · 2021-12-08T16:13:32+00:00

Good b8 dood

boredbitch2020 · 2021-12-08T09:50:16+00:00

I'm not a mysandrist I am just aware that men treat people like shit lol

Red_Trapezoid · 2021-12-08T13:23:42+00:00

The intergender social dynamics that RP preaches are not rooted in any legit research whatsoever. RP is a collection of assumptions rooted in misogyny, stereotypes, bad personal experiences with women and manipulative and predatory behavior.

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lolsleepyboi · 2021-12-08T18:44:22+00:00

If you think we got it wrong why are you here?

BobAndVergina · 2021-12-08T20:12:19+00:00

Nope, you need to look into the definition of the term “redpill”, cus you just described the complete opposite. Gender studies is literally about intergender social dynamics, yet no one calls those people “redpill”, in fact, they’re called “cucks” “woke” and “feminazis” by bad faith actors, who are mostly redpill.

Redpill is when you believe men and women’s inherent biological differences are severe and meaningful enough to justify massive inequality between them, and that people of separate sexes are just “meant” to behave in a certain way or hold a specific place in society based on unwavering characteristics. It’s about pure biological essentialism. If you believe that men and women should be treated equally, and that ppl’s position in society should not be determined by their gender or sex, you’re automatically not redpill.

BlankVoid2979 · 2021-12-08T10:25:23+00:00

the Red pill is not toxic but it creates toxic men which means it is toxic to a degree.

kinda like how feminism is not toxic by itself but it creates toxic women.

Title	You got it wrong
Author	A_Real_Mann
Upvotes	0
Comments	104
Date	December 8, 2021 9:48 AM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/ExRedPill
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