Sorry for the little rant, I know most women here are straight, but hopefully some lesbians can relate.

As a lesbian, I am not immune to men's b*llshit. Luckily for me, I don't get a lot of crap, but that's only because I don't look like a lesbian, but when word gets out, the stupidity comes full speed.

One of the things I encounter is the "how do y'all have sex?" question. The old me would explain, but I no longer do that. I now give one-liners and keep it moving. If they say, "that's not sex", it doesn't faze me.

Any man that cares what lesbians are doing either don't have a sex life of their own (again, the old me would gladly point that out, but then we'd just go back and forth which I don't do) or they're trying to get underneath my skin. I will never believe men genuinely care what we do without them, no matter what they say. There's google and p*rn. They'll never fool me into believing they care.

I get many more questions, but the point is, and I hope other women follow: I do not argue with, go back and forth with, explain myself to, nor do I repeat myself to any man, no matter who he is or what he looks like.