Am I Being Unreasonable

honeybeeroll · 2021-02-23T03:29:01+00:00

No way!! That's messed up! Someone's religion doesn't excuse them from cheating or doing illegal stuff! I'm not from Germany so I am not sure to whom you can report it but I share your outrage at seeing such shit and would want to report it myself. I feel very badly for his wife. Women in these very strict religious communities get the short end of the stick more than anyone. They are brainwashed into living only to marry men as virgins, meanwhile they have no idea that the men in their communities are watching porn, likely not virgins, and up to depraved shit.

TheDameWithoutASmile · 2021-02-23T03:29:05+00:00

I will never understand the argument, "Maybe they have an open relationship and she knows about it!"

I really doubt open relationships are more common than cheaters cheating, for one, and for another, so what? If it is, it might be a little awkward. It might be a little uncomfortable, but no real harm done. If it isn't, well, that woman now knows her husband/bf is a cheater and can get checked for STDs.

Thejasminedragon1215 · 2021-02-23T05:37:25+00:00

Report the fuck outta him!! If the religion is Islam, he should know that it is obligatory on Muslims to follow the law of the land. If the country he is in states that polygamy is illegal, it is prohibited for him to engage in it.

Conturas · 2021-02-23T11:14:37+00:00

You are not being unreasonable.

What I'm seeing here is a man trying to fool a woman as her second "wife" in a country where you can have only one legal spouse at a time. So the woman must know that if the man doesn't divorce his wife first, she can not have the legal status of a wife.

I'm from another European country where polygamy is a crime, too. But I think it means only an attempt to legally marry twice, to fool the authorities. If they're not trying to get the religious marriage legalized, they aren't doing anything wrong. It is legal to be married in another country, just that the marriage is not legal in Germany.

KateJ1982 · 2021-02-23T05:08:57+00:00

Do report it to the German authorities if you can figure out how to do that. But don't tell women who have liked his photos as you can assume they're all pickmes just like that doctor and who knows if they will tell him what you are doing and you'll become a target. It's sad that you can't warn these woman but you can't.

Unless you can figure out who his wife is - then definitely share a screenshot with her anonymously!!

Title	Am I Being Unreasonable
Author	Particular_Balance
Upvotes	65
Comments	7
Date	February 22, 2021 9:51 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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