Im a kissless virgin in my early 20s going to university. I have never had a guy seriously approach me in my entire life. I wouldn't say I'm ugly. I'm very average looking, I guess plain. What can I do to make myself more desireable/approachable. Feel free to ask anything.

The only thing I can think of is that Im part of an ethnic group that is very desexualized and men might perceive me as off limits. In Europe girls from the middle east are either looked at as trashy or basically nuns. There is no in between. I don't wanna play victim but I feel like it plays into it a lot.