Any HVMs in India?

AfraidofFollowers · 2020-08-23T12:08:47+00:00

I haven’t met one yet. The last one took me out to dinner and tried to split a meal with me. I was astonished at the audacity with that one.

There are a billion people in India though. There has to be a few people of high value, right?

shortywannarock · 2020-08-23T13:36:27+00:00

Haven’t met any personally.. they’re all manipulative mammas boys who cry if you point at a dirty dish. Some of them know how to ‘talk’ like HVM, but the minute they think they’ve got you pinned down, all of that falls off and it’s time to be the good little wife they expect. I have a friend who was recently duped into marrying a guy like this. He acted like he was ‘modern’ and laid back, but as the wedding approached he went back to ignoring the chores, expecting her to cook all of the meals, expecting her to take care of their pets, expecting her roll over and unconditionally accept his mother’s demands etc.

So, I’m sure they’re out there, but I’ve never met one.

neonfairylights · 2020-08-23T15:39:32+00:00

Nope. Never met a single one lmao. They are all coddled by their mothers since birth and will expect you to do all the household chores. Women here have a lot of internalized misogyny too. 90% of them are pickmes. Tbh dating here is a bore. I'm planning on getting out of this country the first chance I get.

curlygirl507 · 2020-08-23T15:50:20+00:00

Been on dates with at least six Indian guys, two are my actual exes, all highly-educated and successful, most pretty attractive, and nope - not a single one, not even close.

ayhtdws1989 · 2020-08-23T16:49:04+00:00

indian fds follower here,my dad is a straight up nvm i have zero hopes, i have aguy friend who is super amazing and fds aligned. so i thibk maybe there are guys like that.

burntbpd · 2020-08-31T11:49:21+00:00

Hello. Desi girl here. Know two desi HVMs but both taken. One of them regularly lurks here. To learn more (never comments or fights just curious to learn) and the other isn't on reddit but is an HVM in every way.

Ordinary_Gazelle9254 · 2020-08-23T07:15:05+00:00

Desi lady here. Yes.

Here are the physical requirements: Must be 6'0''+ height (avg Indian guy is very short), must have an athletic physique (many tall desi guys are overweight or too skinny).

other requirements to be HVM: Should fit in well and socialize with my family. Must be aware of my feelings and make an effort to make me feel loved. Should have good family background (high caste or whatever), high paying job with stability. Should follow some traditions, like vegetarianism. Should have time and energy to spend time with me after work (I know some guys who come from work and watch TV till bedtime). Should be INDEPENDENT, not immature and reliant on parents like many desi guys.

I don't care about the degree, what actually matters is if he is naturally intelligent. Should have a life outside of work and studying, which means real hobbies.

Many desi people get upset when I say this but HVMs are more likely NRIs, should be good at English as well as our native language. Family must not demand dowry, must treat in laws with respect as equals.

Title	Any HVMs in India?
Author	CaramelxMarshmallows
Upvotes	25
Comments	36
Date	August 22, 2020 11:09 PM UTC (5 years ago)
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