I’m too nice. I grew up a people pleaser. This has done me a great disservice in relationships with men.

Once it’s reasonable to date again I’m going to try this strategy. I’m going to think about someone I consider a HVW and wonder if she would date or entertain this man? I think of Evy Poumpouras as a HVW. She’s a former secret service agent and now author and it seems like she has her shit together. I’m going to have my own standards of course with the help of this sub. But having a guardian angel HVW example on my shoulder I’m hoping to give myself a little extra help. 👼

Who would you choose to be your HVW guardian angel?