« ’Being wiser’ often means being compliant and doing things you don’t want to do. This makes you a female doormat. » Labowsky

finalbosskitten · 2020-06-25T20:21:29+00:00

Lol I was called immature and "too young to know better" by other women when I advised my friend to not be friends with her abuser after breaking up with him, of whom being around makes her feel like shit. Apparently the wise decision out of their mouths was to, uh...not "throw away" a "connection" and "emotionally support him until he comes crawling back"? I don't get it. What good is grace and love when it's blind?

radical__daphne · 2020-06-25T22:04:28+00:00

Don't ever let someone convince you being a chump is mature.

Just saw an evil pickme earlier today on fds who was telling women that they're not mature if they don't submit to their boyfriend or husband raping them whenever he wants.

Title	« ’Being wiser’ often means being compliant and doing things you don’t want to do. This makes you a female doormat. » Labowsky
Author	AppropriateHoney6
Upvotes	63
Comments	6
Date	June 25, 2020 6:54 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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