Looking for tips on how to fight being a desperate loser 🤷🏼‍♀️ I feel like I’m in a rut lately and miss having a guy to depend on so much so that I’m willing to somewhat abandon FDS techniques. I’m alone in a foreign country and have always had my bf until we broke up a few months ago. Normally I’m quite strong but the desire to have someone there is intensifying and my self esteem seems to be going down, despite keeping busy and investing in myself. It feels so incredibly difficult at the moment