and I'm not talking about the bare minimum here like getting you a gift at all. Christmas is a wonderful chance to demonstrate you how much he values you. Let his actions speak.

One green flag that I love is getting me gifts I didn't specifically ask for, let alone know it myself. He figures out on his own what brings me joy. It shows that he values me and puts in effort to make me happy. Contrary to that would be any kind of self-message present. Like "look, I got you that thing that I like so YOU can adapt MY hobbys so we can have something in common".

What are your thoughts, queens? What green flags did you discover for getting you gifts?