Dont let this be you

reddituser39682 · 2019-11-04T21:17:48+00:00

Jesus christ. "Am I being controlling because I don't want my boyfriend DMing instagram thots to hit on them?"

Imagine being this much of a cucked pickme.

2019-11-04T23:25:10+00:00

iTs JuSt A LiKe!!

Fucking no. It isn’t. I’ve had enough guys start out by liking pics, then it’s replies to story posts, then they’re in my DMs. Guys who clearly have girlfriends or wives posted on their own page. My pics aren’t even sexual, I’m literally just A Female.

I really believed men when they used to say that likes don’t mean anything. It’s bullshit. If a single one of the girls they were “liking” hit them up, they’d cheat in a heartbeat.

Saitschik · 2019-11-04T21:18:51+00:00

Men on Instagram are creepy af. Unfortunately this has been me. I dated a loser for a few months and eventually realized that he follows and likes plenty of girls, even some he knows in RL and had an affair with.

When I confronted him he literally screamed in my face that there is nothing wrong with his behavoir and his behavoir on Instagram would be none of my business.

He was a guy with lots of issue, dwelling in his mothers basement, smoking weed, no success and long-term student until his 30s.

But he was a former model with a big dick and very entertaining, so I stuck around longer than I should until I realised how fragile his ego is and how much he depended on the random validation of women.

Until I unfollowed him I saw that his behaviour got worse and worse since we broke up and he followed a lot of young girls... none of them followed him back 😂 I cringe when I think about it.

Now I can't believe anymore that I put up with that shit and feel embarrassed. Won't happen again.

Blackishcat27 · 2019-11-04T22:37:25+00:00

She needs us badly.

rad_daphne · 2019-11-04T23:36:03+00:00

Idiots. Just dump the pig. He has no respect for you.

hanscons · 2019-11-05T01:12:48+00:00

he would 100% cheat on her given the chance

suaveagave · 2019-11-05T05:56:35+00:00

This is why I date men who don’t use social media. I don’t use Instagram either. I’ve never seen it bring out the good in anyone.

s_slayer · 2019-11-05T03:58:09+00:00

A guy who makes you feel this way and disrespects you isn’t at all worth it. Why stay? If you’re feeling more bad than good about yourself with him, dump him. I have no time for this kind of sh*t.

Title	Dont let this be you
Author	throwaway64857
Upvotes	43
Comments	12
Date	November 4, 2019 8:35 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/drnpts/dont_let_this_be_you/
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