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Forging Uncomfortable Trauma Bonds with Part 2 of 36 Questions to Make You Fall in Love

SnarkSticks

April 8, 2022
103 upvotes
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SOURCE: https://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2015/jan/14/love-is-getting-answers-right-to-36-questions

https://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2015/jan/14/very-scientific-romance-36-questions-make-you-fall-in-love

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Title Forging Uncomfortable Trauma Bonds with Part 2 of 36 Questions to Make You Fall in Love
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SnarkSticks

Upvotes 103
Comments 6
Date April 8, 2022 7:13 PM UTC
(4 years ago)
Subreddit Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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Comments

[–]WCAttorneyFDS Newbie 69 points70 points71 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I immediately thought of prisoners using this to get information from women they are writing to from jail. NEVER be in a relationship with someone in jail. It's not worth it for you and you will be carrying him and that record for the rest of your life.

[–]matcha_vanilla70 points 4 years ago [recovered] (1 child) | Copy Link

I think asking these questions can give an illusion of knowing someone very deeply right away and can make them more susceptible to forming a bond with them.

I don't have access to the patreon (I'm a student rn so my budget is tiiiiiight) so idk if this is a point that was already made but forming a bond with a man that quick is not a good idea

the point made in part 1 of the podcast abt sprinkling those questions in over a long time is rlly important imo

[–]AnniaTFDS Disciple 4 points5 points6 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I think these questions can be useful but not by asking them on the first dates and not all at once like a questionnaire. If you introduce them naturally and slowly it can be a vetting mechanism. I don't agree though that they'll make you fall in love, just that if applied in an organic way they can give an idea of your values match him and vet.

[–]datfishd00dFDS Newbie 18 points19 points20 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

If a man starts asking me these questions (which I unfortunately know), I will call then out and cut them off. It triggers the fuck out of me

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