If A Man Chokes You, He Hates You

Maingurl · 2023-04-27T13:44:08+00:00

Weird millennials harassing Gen-z because they don't think violence during sex is empowering.

By the way, I remember seeing the original Twitter post. It was insane how much hate that teenager got all because she said she wasn't into choking. Grown-ass women calling her a Puritan. She's a child she's allowed to have boundaries. Weirdos.

vintagexrose · 2023-04-29T04:29:04+00:00

It’s nuts to me how people shame women for not liking violence in the bedroom, just crazy. Also there’s nothing wrong with being “vanilla” smh. I’m tired of seeing women get shamed for not wanting to get beat up in the bedroom.

WhyComeToAStickyEnd · 2023-04-26T18:58:08+00:00

STRANGLES! It's strangulation, not choking (on water/ pieces of food/ air when not breathing right)! Counts as DV too

Moretalent · 2023-04-26T19:27:32+00:00

this sub was better when it wasn't a constant fund raising scam

Maingurl · 2023-04-27T13:33:59+00:00

I miss you girls💖!!!

Acryophage · 2023-04-26T19:43:21+00:00

If someone strangles you, they should be seen as a murderer who just didn't hold on long enough.

WhyComeToAStickyEnd · 2023-04-26T23:24:09+00:00

⭐️No one is born and wants pain+pleasure together. Why do babies cry when their needs aren't met? Imagine causing pain to a baby. Would you do that to a baby? Then why would you let a man do that to you? :(

To those being strangled, have you considered healing first, before getting involved in any sex acts that LV man use you for? Sexual desire is not the same as respect. Sexual desire is also different from being cherished.

Do you want to be cherished by a man who loves you?

Understand why Armie Hammer could no longer carry out BDSM with his wife. The madonna-whore complex is very real among ZV and LV men. Seek healing first before being TAKEN ADVANTAGE OF by a man.

Check out this post on here: My mother's analogy on BDSM (The mother is a lawyer.)

Consent does not matter because we're talking about the act that is INTRINSICALLY bad. The act itself is already a type of harm and abuse. Consent does not matter. It's just fake empowerment, again, at the expense of women. Why is it so common for men of all ages to do it to younger female subs and/ or masochists, then discard them to find a new younger sextoy who claims that they love it and give consent?

Fulfilling, 100% intense and loving sex is something done together WITH. BDSM acts are usually done TO the other person.

Remember: Consent does not matter because we're talking about the act that is INTRINSICALLY bad. The act itself is already a type of harm and abuse. Substitute it with racism (raceplay ew), murder (the great post shared above) or any act that is INTRINSICALLY HARMFUL TO ANOTHER PERSON. It's still the same.

Heal first. For masochists and/ or subs, it's because you were in pain that pain feels comforting and familiar so it became the default for you. Which is why you like pleasure (healthy default but is unfamiliar and could be scary to you) and link it up with pain (something familiar, so not that scary).

Have you heard of the experiences of other women who were once only-kinky and then once they experienced loving vanilla sex, realized the kind of LOVE they COULD ALSO HAVE. Check out another post on here: Vanilla Convert (anti BDSM finally!)

You deserve a man who cherishes you, not just want to do sex acts to you for his own sexual gratification. Remember Armie Hammer's case. It's just one high-profile case. It's because the BDSM acts are INTRINSICALLY CRUEL AND UNFAIR TO ANOTHER PERSON. Which is why consent isn't relevant, no matter how much the kink community wants to bring it up.

And also let's not ignore the fact that there's so much grooming from the media, misogynistic ideas from others that add on to it. If a man strangles you, he indeed hates you. Remember what Armie Hammer revealed. Remember that you're worthy of being cherished. ⭐️

TropiWhiite · 2023-04-27T06:38:36+00:00

revive fds pleaseeee we need it here on reddit to educate people

tzijo · 2023-04-27T00:14:01+00:00

It’s super telling that men will never let themselves be strangled in bed. People pushing this are fucking dumb

Biracial_tooth_fairy · 2023-04-28T21:24:48+00:00

All the guys here being like oH bUt sHE ConSenTed.

Yeah. Kind of like when men used to say that a woman's "no" actually means "yes" and you should try harder. Fuck off

digital_sunrise · 2023-04-27T03:26:39+00:00

I don’t understand a lot of what is going on in this thread. What’s this stonks award all over the place? Why are there awarded deleted posts?

jerkstore · 2023-04-27T12:46:23+00:00

Why are there are there so many posts advocating men strangling women during sex?

Typical_Candle_5627 · 2023-04-26T18:19:19+00:00

I AGREE

ItsCoolWhenTheyDoIt · 2023-04-26T23:59:47+00:00

“Play fighting” as well. Any pretend victimization is a red flag.

Obvious_Boat3636 · 2023-04-30T18:54:44+00:00

This is weird and disturbing that people actually think like this. I’m a 38 yr old. I remember having a guy non consensually choke me during sex. It was scary to say the very least. This is NOT OK.

stripesonthecouch · 2023-04-27T12:45:31+00:00

🙏🙏🙏 I hate the whole concept of “kink-shaming”, violence is violence!

NitzMitzTrix · 2023-04-30T11:32:01+00:00

BDSM is an assault on women. It's disgusting how much of my generation has been brainwashed to see it as "empowering". It's not, there's nothing empowering about being abused during your most intimate moments.

PuddingZealousideal · 2023-05-01T01:54:47+00:00

I really don't get why some people like rape and strangulation fantasies, and the partner is available to do that. If you love someone, you will not make them suffer, even if the suffering is sexy¿?. I think they probably need therapy because it is not healthy

Femanimal · 2023-04-29T01:52:21+00:00

They may not hate you, per say, but they have a rage toward women/female-identifying. Massive, red paychological flag.

SnowQueenSpell · 2023-04-29T18:24:14+00:00

I went to listen to this podcast and it shook me to the core. I think I was a victim of BDSM without even really realising it. Can therapy especially with sexologist help? Anyone?

Zurflu · 2023-04-30T23:28:42+00:00

This is probably a shout into the void but does anyone know what's up with the old FdsSuperfans sub?? I think it's closed or everyone was banned or something. I miss the FDS subs lol i was just cracking up reading y'alls comments on my old posts...

loveoflegacy19 · 2023-04-27T04:30:43+00:00

I’m so confused as to this thread lol … I’ve always been attracted to rough love making and my neck is very sensitive. It makes sense that gripping my neck would intensify the pleasure. And it does. There’s no power imbalance, no history of violence or assault. It’s just a sensitive and vulnerable part of my body that I like experimenting with. Maybe some people have it associated with past violence but that’s not the case with me and I’m pretty sure many others.

maybeitsmini · 2023-04-27T11:04:39+00:00

What the fuck is this shit

Casuke · 2023-04-28T13:38:34+00:00

My man has choked me out to unconsciousness about a dozen or more times. I should probably be concerned.

moosecakies · 2023-04-28T02:14:47+00:00

Can’t you just make a telegram FDS for this group?

august-27 · 2023-04-29T01:08:08+00:00

Thought the title sounded familiar. This episode was posted on the patreon back in December. And there was no bonus episode this week. Hope everything is okay Reaux & Savannah!

Sad_Conclusion8488 · 2023-05-01T19:12:52+00:00

What if a woman asks a man to choke her during sex? That can actually happen. Are you implying that women should not have the freedom to choose this?

Subject-Memory8363 · 2023-04-26T20:36:35+00:00

Can we not kinkshame

Matt15997 · 2023-04-27T21:14:40+00:00

What if my girlfriend tells me to choke her, and I do it reluctantly but hard enough to where she likes it?

3KidsInATrenchcoat_ · 2023-04-30T21:36:41+00:00

Why is everyone kink shaming? If it’s not something you’re into, don’t do it. Don’t be with partners who pressure you to do things you’re not into. I see nothing wrong with consensual breathplay.

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Title	If A Man Chokes You, He Hates You
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Date	April 26, 2023 2:34 PM UTC (3 years ago)
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