friendly reminder that BDSM is abuse

cherry-sweet · 2020-03-10T20:06:53+00:00

is it a coincidence that in the overwhelming cases of BDSM women are the ones being beaten, degraded, subjugated? i wonder how self proclaimed feminists justify this in their heads.

darlin_squishy · 2020-03-10T23:50:30+00:00

I've always wondered how these "kinks" came to be. Mostly because porn has evolved from just sex to beating, group sex, scat porn etc. How have women been conditioned to believe being smacked in the face is a sexual act and not abuse. Like, women in these situations never stop to ask "why does this man want to hit me in the first place?".

One kink I still don't understand is how men think a threesome is innocent. Having a threesome is not just a "fun time", it is the woman being okay with watching your partner fuck another woman in front of you. Some are okay with that but asking your partner who hasn't expressed an interest for a threesome is basically saying "can I cheat directly in front of you and not call it cheating so I remain the good guy?".

Watch most men recoil in disgust when you ask them for a threesome with another man..... Its the same situation but for some reason, being a lesbian has been glorified as a way to turn men on.