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[–]CuriousCatNYC777Ruthless Strategist77 points78 points79 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Sure - Lets do literally the MOST intimate thing two humans can do together, before getting to know each other’s last names. 🙄
[–]munakhtylerFDS Newbie45 points46 points47 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Then they drop you cuz it's just not working out
[–]cannedboelynFDS Newbie33 points34 points35 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Or: “I lied to all these girls and my ex left me ...because reasons” then they tell everyone that all women are liars and thots
[–]BlueJeanMistressFDS Apprentice39 points40 points41 points 6 years ago* (8 children) | Copy Link
When I used to use OLD so many guys would ask what I was looking for. My go to response was typically “looking to date and see if it leads to a relationship”. About half the time I’d get back “wow you just rush into dating like that? I don’t do that but we can hang out first” 🙄
Edit: I see I’ve been given a flair-just want to clarify-I’m not dating anyone-actually getting married this Sunday lol. Already got my HVM :)
[–]extraacct1234Ruthless Strategist22 points23 points24 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
"wow you just rush into talking to someone and getting to know them like that?"
[–]fanofswordsFDS Newbie8 points9 points10 points 6 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
please share tips
[–]BlueJeanMistressFDS Apprentice14 points15 points16 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Well I’d say overall what worked for me was: taking it slowly, keeping physical stuff off the table for awhile and actual build a real connection through dinner dates and activity dates. I was upfront right away that I wanted to take things slow physically and I emphasized from the start that communication was the most important thing to me. As far as tips concerning meeting a guy through online dating: unmatch if they start off sexual, if they want to “hang out”, only offer coffee/drink dates, or can’t hold a conversation in general. I’ll admit it would kind of sound like I was interviewing the guy when we first matched. But I wanted to establish things like if he had a career, his living situation, what he was looking for dating-wise and so forth. I don’t think I ever played games but I always made my boundaries and standards known from the very start. With my now fiancé-he was nothing but respectful, always made time for me, communicated daily, planned dates (cooked an entire dinner and made homemade key lime pie) and really took the time to get to know me and connect.
[–]fanofswordsFDS Newbie11 points12 points13 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
While I love the memes here, I wish we had another more serious sub which talks more about: How to be high value women, how women turned their lives from being low value to being high value and also success stories from women who found HVM. The memes are hilarious but I want more content.
[–]kchangelotFDS Newbie2 points3 points4 points 6 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Did you meet your fiancé through OLD?
[–]BlueJeanMistressFDS Apprentice8 points9 points10 points 6 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
I did! We met on tinder of all places lol! But I had to swipe through a lot of garbage over the years before I met him.
[–]kchangelotFDS Newbie3 points4 points5 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Well congratulations! You give the rest of us hope.
[–]BlueJeanMistressFDS Apprentice3 points4 points5 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Thank you!
[–]working-girl-FDS Newbie20 points21 points22 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
A guy from work that isn’t even attractive tried this on me. He would always ask me to have sex before as if dating him was something I wanted to earn.
I point blank told him that that would never happen and it my no to that was definite. Then I asked him about his success rate with that mindset. And he said it about 20%! Yeah fucking right.
[–]ScotsburdFDS Disciple3 points4 points5 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Let's not, arsehole.
[–]ritablueboys1FDS Newbie4 points5 points6 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
If a relationship is too much work; then opening my legs is too much work
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