So I have a bf of 6 months and we have the dream relationship I’ve always wanted - travel, will try anything, overextends himself for me, witty, can always make me laugh. We fell deeply for eachother pretty quickly. It was exciting and we kept eachother on our toes. We always talked about moving in, getting married (you know when you know). I’m moving out in 4 months so we started taking about it more seriously (I am a planner so seemed right to me). We’d talk about location, price range, down to what shower we wanted. Fast forward a month and I’m starting to tell my friends and his. When I told his friend we were thinking about it, he freaks out literally jolts away from me. Later he reveals he doesn’t want to move in so quickly and that he told me by saying “I’m moving in w my sister next month”...TERRIBLE communication for a 28yr old. He apologizes later on, we talk it out and he reassured me he still loves me it’s just too soon and we’ve been arguing lately. We move on as he shows he wants to be w me and tries to cater to me, be sweet, etc. A couple days after he’s making the “I’m gonna nap for a few hrs” excuse and dodging convos w me. Got it. Don’t want to talk. Should I just drop him? Seems like he’s backing off and I should take the hint now before he does something behind my back?