I detect NO LIES being told here...

diflorus · 2020-06-14T17:04:33+00:00

“Self proclaimed nice guy” = The bare minimum of a man. I don’t physically attack or rape women or have a criminal record, this sets me apart from all the bad guys, so I’m a nice guy, you should date me. No matter if I’m cheap or stingy, have a low paying job, live with my parents in my 30s, can’t cook or clean, lazy and addicted to video games, obese and eat junk food all the time.

cutsforluck · 2020-06-14T17:38:29+00:00

💯

There are many permutations of the 'nice guy.'

The guy who is nice to everyone else, but toxic to you, relies on the perception of others that he's a 'nice guy.' So if you ever confide their toxic behavior in someone else, they won't believe you or will brush it off, because 'he's such a nice guy.'

He's 'nice' --> you must be the bad one.

'Nice' guys are often weak, passive, unmotivated *negative* value men, who hide behind the facade of 'nice.' That they should get away with hurting you because they 'really meant well.' If they acknowledge or take responsibility for bad behavior, at all.

Run like hell.

circescircus · 2020-06-14T17:25:43+00:00

I feel like the new "nice guys" are the guys talking shit about nice guys, trying to deflect from themselves. It's what I would do, if I were a predator man-- I'd pretend to be woke, but not too woke where it's suspicious. I'd also ridicule "nice guys", who are a caricature, to deflect from myself and to distract women from noticing that I am the king of "nice guys".

gcthrowaway2019 · 2020-06-14T18:43:09+00:00

At least assholes usually wear red flags on their sleeves. I remember this nice guy coworker I had. We were pretty buddy-buddy and loved texting me up while I was going through it with my ex. He couldn't wait to tell me that he liked how my ass looked. That's the long con.

2020-06-14T20:07:30+00:00

Nice guy = I won’t assault you. Sorry buddy, no. Not doing something is neutral at best. I’ve never met a nice guy who is not whiny, rage filled and ready to scream “BITCH” if you don’t give them what they feel they are entitled to.

I have met many kind men, strong thoughtful men who are not passive whiny cringing wimps. Men who are kind because they can be, not from a place of weakness and manipulation.

bqluoeoedn · 2020-06-15T01:19:01+00:00

I’m not like those other guys. You won’t be a trophy to me.

I remember raising my eyebrows,... like mmmmkthen but these things are not simple cognitive dissonance. They are bright red flags.

goat3470 · 2020-06-14T19:55:28+00:00

"Nice guys" aren't worth shit. Go for good men

Title	I detect NO LIES being told here...
Author	CuriousCatNYC777
Upvotes	384
Comments	12
Date	June 14, 2020 4:53 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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