What I have so far

No sexual contact until after we have established that we are no longer dating but exclusive. And no kissing on the first date only kiss him when it feels special.

A date is not just hanging out it’s an actual invitation and we only proceed if he actually planned a great date and paid since he is the one who asked me if I ask him I will pay. But I would prefer he paid.

No sleeping in underwear until established a real relationship.

No meeting parents until after 4 months of being exclusive so they don’t interfer with the relationship.

Setting standards early on to see his reaction to single out red flags.

If there is three red flags that aren’t minor you end it he has three chances no more no less unless it’s a major issue.

If your body is telling you something is off you leave listen to ur goddamn intuition.

Please come with more ideas so I can make sure to be thorough thank you in advance❤️