If your relationship is dependant on you constantly giving your man the benefit of the doubt... let him go sis

Snugglyy · 2021-09-24T23:00:06+00:00

This is the type of meta that helped me realize some of my past LVMs are just better off as entertainment while I play the “dumb fox” from a distance.

A ton of men are used to being constant let downs and don’t mind operating from the “doubt zone” or asking for their 5th second chance. It’s so weird when they’re aware. No spine, no discipline, no integrity whatsoever. I have no desire to date anybody like that.

Sage_Planter · 2021-09-24T23:04:34+00:00

To add to this, make sure you're taking the time to properly step back and assess these situations as they come. Sometimes it can be hard to see the patterns when you're constantly dealing with whatever mess the day brings.

In my last relationship, my ex was constantly forgetful, bad at communicating, uncaring, selfish, etc., but I was always caught up in the drama du jour that I couldn't see the forest for the trees. I was always getting upset over this and that, but I never took the time to step back and recognize that these patterns were there, even if the day's drama looked different than last week's on the surface.

Title	If your relationship is dependant on you constantly giving your man the benefit of the doubt... let him go sis
Author	sruslywhytho
Upvotes	508
Comments	5
Date	September 24, 2021 10:25 PM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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