New attitude going forward

_SNAIL_GOD · 2019-10-21T16:59:32+00:00

Omg. I could have written this today. My soon to be ex has told me he still loves me a few times over the last couple days. After a separation, I’m realizing that he’s honestly a terrible person. Like, just BAD. I gotta get out of this mess.

Havest22 · 2019-10-21T18:04:48+00:00

look at actions in relationships, not words.

somegenerichandle · 2019-10-21T20:43:43+00:00

I feel like the 'still' is particularly manipulative. Like they are implying we did something awful and need forgiveness, or we're not good enough to love because of some failure they see.

mayanlegion · 2019-10-21T19:58:41+00:00

It’s called gaslighting. The ol’ ‘I love you’ bit

redbirdflies · 2019-10-21T21:35:00+00:00

I fell for this too many times. I’m finally done and I’m free. It’s an amazing feeling to have finally released myself from this toxic sludge of a mess

rainisthelife · 2019-10-21T22:12:13+00:00

YAS! 🙌

pumpernick3l · 2019-10-21T21:39:41+00:00

This dude isn't even worth a response

christian_hippie3 · 2019-10-21T18:11:54+00:00

Dude. SERIOUSLY! I’m tired of hearing this from my baby daddy when he doesn’t act like it at all. Content bastard...

2019-10-22T04:52:16+00:00

Fuck yeah next time my ex messages begging for me to take him back I’m going to tell him it’s

ThrowawaysShmoawayss · 2019-10-21T21:31:22+00:00

Big facts

musephotos · 2019-10-22T04:52:49+00:00

Yes I understand this like you have NO IDEA. I should post mine, including the part where I said I refused to be his shrink and he should go get his own.

cloudsandshit · 2019-10-22T14:06:04+00:00

Hello

TittiesVonTease · 2019-10-21T20:10:27+00:00

A very reasonable request. I wonder why they struggle with that?

fishingirl9310 · 2019-10-21T21:30:43+00:00

so true!

Title	New attitude going forward
Author	cabernetmermaid
Upvotes	780
Comments	32
Date	October 21, 2019 4:47 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/dl39za/new_attitude_going_forward/
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