hi, so I am a fervant fds believer however I am wondering on the date issue. I currently have a date coming up with an HVM. However, he already has everything planned out. I am very independent and always know what I want. And, usually, I love food and have a restaurant list to try out. For dates, I am used to telling the guys which restaurant I want to go to and the guy always pay for it. However, FDS advice testing out the guy commitment or vetting him out trough stuff like date planning . Also, I have a preferred set of activities to do after a restaurant date such as coffee shop or ice cream. I am very picky , particular, and hard to please. I am conflicted, any advice?