My long term SO and I decided in January that white January should also include no sex. We last had sex 3 times on the 1st and have been absenting since then. No sex, no alcohol and no shitty take out food.

When we feel in the mood, we just cuddle, kiss, watch a movie or take a jog/run/walk. It has done wonders for us. We have rekindled that spark of “excitement” every time we kiss or even hold hands.

Needless to say our relationship is porn free and I am excited every time I see him, and it’s the same for him. I think we’re just gonna call it quits sometime this week (home offices)

I wanted to see if it was possible, if I get sick and can’t have sex would he stray? He has shown me he won’t. I admit, the first few weekends were tough, but we managed. It also reminded me of how low the bar is. I found myself thinking “wow! What a great bf, he never pushes and accepts a no” . That’s like the expected behavior of any adult human! What makes him better though is that in the past few weeks, he himself stops and says “let’s go for a walk instead” when the kissing gets too intense.

I am pissed off whenever I hear moids say stuff like «i haz neeeeeedz»