Pet peeve rant: when guys are obsessed with short, tiny women. Why did this creep me out so much? It just screams "I'm controlling, insecure and dominating" and I mostly see short guys do this. Anyone else weirded out by this? I'm 5'2 and any time a guy fixates on it, I cringe.

JuddHerpatow · 2019-12-09T04:07:29+00:00

I'm an over 6 foot woman and for some men that's a threat. They want to play fight/wrestle/box me. On first dates I wear four inch heels to see if they are going to have an issue with the fact I am physically similar.

jackrusselterror1 · 2019-12-09T04:03:39+00:00

Yes. Its totally creepy.

I'm 5'2 and not only am I petite, I am consistently thought to be on the border of legal (17-19 is the range people have guessed the most. HR at my work had definitely been confused looking from my resume with 8 years of related experience and a bachelors degree, then looking at me). I'm 28. I definitely struggle with men who cold approach me, because I'm worried they're attracted to the idea that I'm young or naive. Basically I'm worried about attracting predators and abusers. If any man draws attention to how youthful I look, calls me cute or adorable, or makes a big deal about my size, I block them and move on to the next.

plembb · 2019-12-09T04:12:47+00:00

Men who target specifically short and petite women are obsessed with teen porn. They like small women because they’re easier to dominate and they make their tiny dicks look bigger.

throwawaylesbian69 · 2019-12-09T14:19:51+00:00

I'm 4'9 and even tho I dont date men anynore they consistently target me because I look extremely young. I look closer to 14 or 15 instead of 19. It honestly creeps me out that men want me because I look like a young teen but I'm technically legal. Its gross af

2019-12-10T18:59:57+00:00

It depends, I'm 4'10" and men usually find my size adorable but in the endearing kind of way. It helps a lot dating-wise, they pay for the dates and feel like they have to protect me (in their own words). Use it to your advantage. But bring pepper spray wherever you go.

Lakersrock111 · 2019-12-09T03:39:19+00:00

I am a small white roman brunette. I won’t lie that’s creepy. Consent has to happen.

grimreapersdtr · 2019-12-09T23:59:11+00:00

Yes. As someone who’s 5’3” and small sized, I can relate to what you are saying.

Janedola · 2019-12-10T01:38:37+00:00

Is short height that big of a deal to guys?? Maybe I'm inexperienced here, but the only "big" size difference I've seen was between my 6foot best friend and a 5'1 girl, and that was never an issue. Obsessing over it just seems like another loli pedo creep excuse, prolly some 5'5er doing it too lol

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