So how many of you have dated a guy for a while and you don’t know him well enough to have sex but you would enjoy getting off after making out? He then pulls the line of ‘there is something we can do’ and decides to insert his dick in the picture. Like excuse me, please put that back in your pants, I require more foreplay before wanting to hand-handle your cock rocket. Now, looking back, I would have loved to initiate legs open in a chair for him to prove himself with his mouth or else the words that exit mean nothing. How do would you guys vet this? And for those uncomfortable with a man giving oral, what ways do you vet compatibility before sex?