pickmeisha alert!

BDizzy18 · 2020-01-15T16:50:50+00:00

Sigh... once again, here's the removed post. 😆Mods over there are garbage.

tl;dr Should I break up with my bf of 7 years who won't commit to marriage, lies, and I feel like he takes full advantage of my giving personality?

I've been with my boyfriend for 7 years and we've had a lot of great times together. He is a sweet guy but he has some traits that I cannot get over.

Twice this year he has made large purchases (motorcycles) without telling me. He goes and buys them when I am away for a weekend or at work. He does this so that "I won't convince him not to". He wrecked his first bike and it's still sitting broken in the garage. Instead of fixing it he went and purchased another one.

He runs his own business out of our garage. I am a business partner who does much of the sales emails, helps with deliveries, and moving product around. He has never offered to pay me for my time helping him. He really only makes about $1k a month doing this, and spends the profit on expensive clothes and motorcycles.

I have a college degree and love my career. I make a good income, and since he doesn't make as much as me I have been buying all of our groceries. Another way that he profits from our relationship without giving much.

He has some chores that he does (takes care of firewood in the winter and takes the trash out) but other than that I am the sole housekeeper as well. It's pretty often that I ask him to help with things and he will whine until he gets out of it or says he will do it later (rarely does).

He lies about things (buying things in secret, taking Xanax and Adderrall recreationally).

I'm starting to get exhausted by this "mom and child" dynamic. I feel like I am constantly asking him to do his share, begging him for respect, and asking him to put our relationship first before his desire to "have fun". He won't commit to getting married. I should also mention that 4 years into our relationship he told me he had herpes from the get-go and that meant that I also now had herpes. He also had an alcohol abuse problem, but has stopped drinking. He has ADD.



At the very least I am going to demand payment for my work with his company (even if it's a small amount) and that he begin to pay for half of our grocery and household bills. I feel like if he has enough money to buy himself presents then he has enough to contribute to these things. I'm hoping that will at least soothe some of my bitterness about the financial issues.

Is it wrong of me to leave him because I want a partner who is going to put the family first before material things? Is there any hope for a relationship with a person who is a liar?

This woman needs to drop this dumpster fire and just hire a maid. The maid is cheaper and will do more than he does anyway.

extraacct1234 · 2020-01-15T10:41:51+00:00

Very sad

2020-01-15T11:50:31+00:00

How many times a day do you think a pickmeisha posts on reddit asking for advice about some worthless scrote that she isn't going to take?

Title	pickmeisha alert!
Author	mandoa_sky
Upvotes	12
Comments	8
Date	January 15, 2020 10:12 AM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/ep0ih1/pickmeisha_alert/
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