PROGRESS

Practical_Appearance · 2020-12-07T17:43:34+00:00

Good for you girl. I'm a separated but not yet divorced yet woman (tomorrow is my court date for the divorce!). This is something that should be mentioned BEFORE the first date.

You are allowed to have standards. Don't want to date someone who is married or has children? DON'T! Fuck his feelings, put yourself first.

chateauduchat · 2020-12-07T18:14:15+00:00

When I first met my narc ex (he was early 40s, I was mid early 20s) he literally didn’t tell me he was still LEGALLY MARRIED aka sEpArAtEd (also lied about his age) until almost a month of us exclusively dating. I was blindsided. And then he had the audacity to tell me it was nothing to concerned about and that I was ridiculous for not trusting him. So I decided to go on a website where I could talk to men and get money because I was a broke college kid (it was strictly platonic) and he constantly needed money from me. Then he shamed me for doing it while also taking my money that I earned from it and how dare I do that because that’s cheating. UH I only had feelings for him and I did STRICTLY for money and talked to these men like we were friends and blocked all the weirdos AND even let him see all the messages.

Manipulated and naive me wasted years of my life with that pos. He didn’t officially divorce her until half a year into our relationship. These men have no moral ground to stand on when messing with a woman’s true and genuine feelings. I’m so glad you didn’t entertain another date. I wish I did. And now I have still a lot to work to do from undoing his abuse through therapy. Now I have an amazing career, making a lot of money, wonderful friends and family, and things are looking great.

Separated is STILL MARRIED. You deserve better. Don’t be like me.

janatztxcxxx · 2020-12-08T13:50:09+00:00

As woman who never married before, I always wondered why non married woman would date divorced or married man unless he provides financially. That’s just straight up degrading.

If I don’t have any records of divorce in my books, I expect the guy to be same.

Title	PROGRESS
Author	Pinklepurr1
Upvotes	62
Comments	14
Date	December 7, 2020 2:11 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/k8haax/progress/
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