Goodday ladies,

As an update to the Gino and Jasmine (90 Day) drama, we can see continued NVM behavior from Gino. At this link here, you can see the video of Jasmine snatching Gino's hat.

(DISCLAIMER: I am aware this may be 100% scripted. This is for educational / discussion purposes only).

Red flags:

  1. The look he gives Jasmine after he snatches his hat. There is something unsettling there.

  2. The smiling. I genuinely want to know ladies-- please comment if you think his smiling was duper's delight or "nervous" laughter/smiling.

  3. "Those aren't nudes because they were just your breasts" Uh, LIES plus gaslighting.

  4. Some people speculate he was boiling with quiet anger. While I think that is possible, I think he is also manipulating her hard by trying to look like a wounded animal/the "wronged one" like the Victim archetype in Lundy Bancroft's book.

  5. The worst part of this entire situation IMO is Jasmine claim Gino's ex sent the nudes to her employer and got her fired.

  6. Some other Gino red flags I forgot to discuss in my first post about him: Jasmine claiming "you always compare me to your ex," and his lack of any assurance/warmth (again, just "confused bumbling") when she was upset about the paint colors in his home. He didn't seem to make any effort to understand her feelings or talk it out. This gained a lot of viewer sympathy for Gino, as Jasmine was deemed CrAzY over paint colors.

  7. Gino claims he only had sugar babies he paid over $200 for "dinner dates" and to "find love." Yeah ok.

While Jasmine of course engaged in some LV/NV behavior too, I really feel for her and suspect she has much less control than she thinks she does. Yes, she was IMO engaging in controlling, abusive behavior, had an OF (🙄), and had gross double standards about strippers. It is absolutely not ok to name call and put hands on people. but, I think her issues were amplified in the dynamic, as we can see Gino manipulated and triangulated her. Gino seems to pick at Jasmine's wounds though, and he needs to be accountable for his actions.

Jasmine seemed to think she scored an "obedient" man, when really she (mistakenly) believed she can strong arm a man into giving her the basic love, respect, and adoration of a healthy relationship. How many abusive men allow small indulgences to their gfs/wives, pretending to be "henpecked" when they really hold the cards? Gino's behavior and history leads me to strongly suspect there were other things we did not see behind closed doors.

For what it's worth, I think Jasmine could level up if she wanted to with the FDS mindset. "Those are nudes" 😂 = queen. She was also very disgusted by Gino engaging in sugaring.

Ladies, please comment your thoughts on points 1 and 2. Was that look really malicious? Why was Gino smiling?

Remember ladies, no men are automatically deemed "safe" to date, no matter how dorky, "wholesome," repulsive, lonely, old-fashioned, family-oriented, or desperate he seems to be. VET unapologetically and only date men you find hot. Scrotes angry about us not giving chances to men who repulse us (but also resent us settling!) can die mad. 😇