Should I text him? A flowchart.

lessabe · 2019-12-20T17:17:12+00:00

When it doubt- don’t do it

2019-12-20T16:26:48+00:00

This should be stickied!

CyanCayenne · 2019-12-20T17:15:39+00:00

Very thorough! haha.

Hot-apricot · 2019-12-20T20:02:24+00:00

Great flowchart! Thanks for sharing.

Is he a crush - yes Have you kissed - no Have you even spoken to each other? - yes Don’t do it!

Well I don’t have his number anyway but GODS this crush is so inconvenient!

2019-12-20T22:50:00+00:00

Good chart although I disagree with the way they say "give the guy some space", I would rather say "forget him he's a douchebag" or "if he doesn't do any kind of effort, then don't waste your energy too" instead. Especially if he is distant / ghosting you, didn't reply, or any type of passive aggressive stuff. Because in such cases, it is men who should be shamed for not ending things properly.

Another reason I disagree with the saying "give him some space" is because it doesn't address the fact that men send mixed signals, and that girls rarely do "too much": it is men who rarely put the minimum efforts required to make a connection healthy. So the unequal dynamic comes from them.

Good chart still.

-sweetwater- · 2019-12-20T20:24:39+00:00

Lol, I love this

Haltthemoon · 2019-12-21T02:48:23+00:00

This is helpful! Thanks! IDGAF anymore. I don't even initiate the first text until I feel that I can emotionally trust him. If he thinks that's too much work, move the fuck on. You've got to earn that.

franciefrance · 2019-12-21T21:00:28+00:00

I NEEDED THIS LAST WEEK DAMMIT. But it’s Saved from now on :) Thanks so much op !!

Title	Should I text him? A flowchart.
Author	cherieblosum
Upvotes	148
Comments	9
Date	December 20, 2019 3:18 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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