Has anyone else noticed how LVM across pretty much every spectrum view and defend porn? Doesn't matter if they are studly jock types or the dweeby nerd type (two disparate ends of the spectrum), all of them will justify their consumption of porn some way. The jocks would generally be pretty confident in their misogyny since they openly objectify almost all women around them. The gamer/anime nerds will justify it as a 'special interest' or an off-shoot of their hobbies because IRL most of them can barely make eye contact with a regular woman, much less hold up a steady, intelligent conversation with them. Then of course, there are the downright incels who will foam at the mouth saying it's all women's fault for denying them everything so everything horrible about the porn culture should be the norm.

The running theme between all of these groups that I see is that they all believe the 'men have it harder' when it comes to finding a partner. Doesn't matter if they themselves are truly incapable of forging meaningful, emotional connections because to most of them all sexual relationships should have a pornlike element to be interesting, which puts all the onus on women to be the s**t and the w***e for their pleasure, because they deserve it. A lot of them also believe that since 'women can get all kinds of dick so easily, it's a mystery why they're still so picky about everything.' I am so fucking done with this bullshit mentality.

The sad part is that there a very few handful of men who actually have the mental and emotional intelligence to understand the nuances of a good relationship and it is just so much more relaxing talking to them or just being around them. But I could literally count them on one hand in all my years of existence, and most of them also grow weary of this wholly prevalent toxic dating culture/porn culture/toxic masculinity/systemic sexism and become jaded like most women do too.