What would you gals do?

Sparklyunicorn · 2019-10-07T01:34:03+00:00

No texts at all over the weekend? Sounds like a slow fade to me. You already texted and started a conversation. I'd leave it in his court to put some effort in.

ino_y · 2019-10-07T01:46:09+00:00

If he's free on Wednesday and wants to see you, he'll make it happen.

You feel the need to double text, do you think he's either stupid, forgetful, or not into you?

All 3 make him worth dropping.

MediumTrain · 2019-10-07T05:13:07+00:00

Read the book Why Men Love Bitches. I finished it in a day.

Do not text him. Do not sit at home waiting for him. Do not keep your calendar free for him. Go out with girlfriends. Go to the gym. Have a spa night at home with your phone turned off. Go have fun and be thankful that you haven't invested much time into him. :)

AverageToHot · 2019-10-07T02:17:51+00:00

Stop initiating texts with men. Let them initiate dates.

You're coming off as overeager and low value. He should be the one trying to talk to you, trying to get your attention, and trying to take you out again. The only thing you can do as a woman is stand back and let the man prove himself to you.

PicklesNBacon · 2019-10-07T10:54:35+00:00

Thanks everyone for your insight/responses. I’m not texting him and will make other plans on Wednesday!

PicklesNBacon · 2019-10-20T19:40:06+00:00

UPDATE: He texted that Wednesday and said sorry for being MIA and that a girl from work wanted to be more than friends and he didn’t know what he wanted and didn’t want to leave me hanging.

I said I hope he figures it out and good luck ✌🏻

maybe1dayy · 2019-10-07T00:59:22+00:00

i would ask him on monday if you’re still on for wednesday. check in ONCE. and if no response, or if he says no cuz he’s “busy”, i would let him go

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Spartanwildcats2018 · 2019-10-07T01:33:08+00:00

Just ask him what’s up and why he’s not as talkative.

Title	What would you gals do?
Author	PicklesNBacon
Upvotes	6
Comments	25
Date	October 7, 2019 12:38 AM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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