If a guy doesn’t ask you any questions then the answer is simple. He isn’t interested.

Don’t waste your time interviewing a guy when he can’t even reciprocate a question back!! If he can’t even bother to ask basic questions it shows:

  1. He lacks motivation, which could be true in other aspects of his life
  2. He’s most likely is very boring irl
  3. He lacks basic social skills (you can bet you’ll be the one carrying that load)
  4. He isn’t interested and definitely doesn’t care

“But why would he have swiped right on me if he wasn’t intending to talk to me?” Cries the countless of girls on OLD. The answer is simple: sex. Guys want the easiest method into getting into your pants. The less he has to know about you and the more willingness you show on your end will give him (in his mind) a free ride to pound town. We’re worth more than that. But reminder there is a flip side to this too.

You’re gonna encounter men who do ask questions but they’re not really personable and are more so used to gauge how much effort it’s going to take to get into your pants. Questions like that include “what are you looking for?” “what’s important in a partner for you?” “what are your future goals?” A lot of these questions are harmless but it’s literally them vetting you seeing if you will qualify as their fuck buddy! We can break it down:

“What are you looking for?” - pretty good indicator to see if you’re easy. Most of the time I reply something serious and if they return the answer with open ended answers (ie see where it goes, something casual, etc) mostly means I don’t want a relationship, I just want someone to fulfill my needs until something better comes along.

“What’s important in a partner” - they normally use this to bring up their sexual desires. I normally would respond I’m looking for what everyone else is, honesty/trust/respect. A LVM will typically include sex in his what’s important.

“What are your future goals?” - no one can plan for the future completely, they do this so they have an idea on how easy of a person you are to manipulate. They probably won’t share the same goals as you but they definitely won’t tell you that 🤡

We’re not here to entertain their dicks/ego. From my experience and how I manage these lifeless creatures is the 3 question rule I set for myself. If I have asked 3 consecutive questions with not a single one in return I simply unmatch. There’s no need for explaining, he probably wouldn’t protest anyway 🤷‍♀️ Please don’t waste your time with these LVM who will ask you what your favorite position is before they even ask what is your favorite color!!