A Losing Strategy... GYOW Instead

McCool71 · 2018-09-03T14:38:26+00:00

The big dissonance when it comes to being 'a nice guy' is that it doesn't really play a part in if a girl likes you or not.

A lot of people are led to believe that how you treat a girl is important for her potential attraction to you. But it rarely is.

I don't think it is strange that people get disappointed when they have ~~spent~~ wasted their best years doing what their mothers, sisters and female friends have told them is a key part in getting a woman interested in you. And then one day realize it is just a bunch of BS that has no impact at all.

ovrload · 2018-09-03T13:03:47+00:00

never be a nice guy. its ok to be polite, but dont think being nice will get you pussy.

re_all · 2018-09-03T12:51:40+00:00

This isn’t necessarily the “nice guys” fault.

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Reason

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The logic in the article above is quite sound, and reveals a level of gynocentric hypocrisy that many haven’t considered before

Sandbagicus · 2018-09-03T15:54:19+00:00

it's why niceguys are fucking morons.

women just want to be fucked. HARD. Do that without pretenses and remember to protect yourself and don't marry or date her.

All this nancy-pants "M'lady" bullshit is asinine. women want to be pulled by the hair, thrown onto your shoulder and tossed into the cave. Shit hasn't changed.

realChebz · 2018-09-03T18:21:27+00:00

Go on any mainstream reddit sub with some post about semi-attractive female doing something trivial a 5-yr old could do, and observe an army of cucks crawling on top of each other to "respect whamen". It's ridiculous.

GoDuke2018 · 2018-09-03T14:54:33+00:00

I wish blue pill betas would finally wake up and leave the plantation. Alot of these guys are good guys just ignorant about entitled feminist shit. I feel sorry for them when they get divorce raped and false pounmetoo'd

Stahlboden · 2018-09-03T16:17:47+00:00

These women, over /r/niceguys, gloating over "nice guy" phenomenon, let's say they became mothers to boys. One day their son asks them "Mommy the girls ignore me and reject me, what do I do?" What shall they answer? "Darling just get 5 extra inches in height and more prominent jaw"? Wait, I know: "YOU DONT HAVE CONTROL OVER WYMYMS BODIES SHITLORD, CHECK YOUR PRIVILEGE!"

rationalthought314 · 2018-09-03T17:48:58+00:00

There's two kinds of basic nice guys:

1) the tipping fedora type who does nice things for girls hoping to get some action aka a fake. He's the type that often will call himself "a nice guy" to the vain hope that will make him desirable. He's the type that gets angry when his niceness isn't returned with sex.

2) the decent guy type who doesn't feel like being an asshole i.e. he doesn't play the stupid mental games that women love and fall for. He doesn't call himself a nice guy. He is told he is a nice guy usually when a girl doesn't want to date him due to no bad boy tingles. This is the guy who gets unfairly treated and most likely divorced raped in the future because many women think niceness is weak.

Davidblake6789 · 2018-09-03T14:32:25+00:00

Oh, a woman comprehends quid pro quo all right.

The thing that the nice guy doesn't understand is that a woman wants dominance not cloying sweetness.

So mistreat her 10 times, and she'll give you the fuck you've earned.

starkfuture · 2018-09-03T19:41:04+00:00

That would be the whiteknights. Not the nice guys. Big difference, one group is made up of assholes.

cobaltcolander · 2018-09-03T20:31:53+00:00

It's puzzling the compulsion women have to exclaim they want a nice guy/man. It's almost as if they truly believe that lie. Maybe they do, too. After all, the way the hamster works is unscrutable but idiotic.

Anyway, no, they do not want a nice man. But somehow they feel the need to say so, constantly, unfallibly.

RisingSun64 · 2018-09-03T21:52:43+00:00

Not sure why most people assume to be nice is to have ulterior motives or a desire for sex, at least when a man does it. When it's a woman, all bets are off.

Maybe they just wanted romance and closeness, but these bitches be projecting that all guys want is sex and vapid experiences.

Give your fellow bretheren at least that much credit. We were all the nice guy at some point.

Zombocom1911 · 2018-09-03T21:15:48+00:00

in the era of #metoo , being nice is just self defense. just look at all the cases of dates where guys were aggressive and when she got home she decided to blog about "he wasn't reading my nonverbal cues saying stop, even though I never said anything". You have to be fucking suicidal to play that game.

I-am-the-lul · 2018-09-04T09:27:29+00:00

When women say they want nice guys, it's not because they want to have sex with them, that's what Chads and Tyrones are for, they want nice guys because they want useful orbiters.

Buffalo5 · 2018-09-04T14:29:14+00:00

I'm a naturally decent person, and despise myself when acting like a fraud, so I'm gonna keep on being a decent person. I get laid by just ignoring women, and generally ghosting them as much as possible. For some reason it makes them interested. But when I do interact with someone I try to be polite and considerate to all who deserve it. If they don't deserve it, they get ignored, and those are the ones that want to fuck. It's a sick world, really, I get rid of them by insisting for going for a walk in the forest or the hills instead of going to a bar or restaurant. They bore very quickly, tell me a lie about having to meet their friends, and dissapear. And then my peace of mind returns.

hmrapp · 2018-09-03T18:25:19+00:00

I’m new to this whole community. I’m relatively young, and would like to ask a couple broad questions:

Would you have wished you went MGTOW as young as 16?

What’s the best approach to take in high school?

2018-09-03T18:58:06+00:00

Actually, this is true. Some guys are not attractive to merit the reward.

TheNubianChimaera · 2018-09-03T19:57:10+00:00

LOL this picture is tooooooo funny.

robowriter · 2018-09-03T22:47:09+00:00

If you don't have what she wants being nice doesn't matter. Wants meaning money, ways of obtaining it and the means to spend it on her.

EdBuoy · 2018-09-03T23:58:24+00:00

Every nice guy needs some Patrice O'Neal in his life. Respect yourself, pay lipservice to her.

Title	A Losing Strategy... GYOW Instead
Author	an0naly
Upvotes	381
Comments	64
Date	September 3, 2018 12:41 PM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
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