Alone doesn't mean lonely

CiceroVoltaire · 2018-10-22T01:48:55+00:00

I used to travel frequently for work, many times I'd find myself exploring, dining and living alone in hotels. It took time, but I got used to it.

now I do it by choice. remember your goals, and future, what you want in life, priorities. It gets easier over time

DisinfectantSolution · 2018-10-22T02:14:28+00:00

I really think most men NEED 3 toxic relationships to understand the way to happiness. I only needed 2 but I'm a fast learner lol

betterredthenwed · 2018-10-22T01:53:56+00:00

So today I went and volunteered at an outdoor jazz event I helped plan. Then riding through downtown on my bike I stopped by the vinyl shop and bought a couple records. Went home, cleaned the apartment for a few hours then made a bomb ass dinner.

Same here! In fact … I have so much time on my hands being single I bought a gaming system and got back into that. There's something magical to coming home to yourself. Your place. Your food. No drama.

alienhoopajoop · 2018-10-22T03:27:34+00:00

It's up to each man to decide whether his time alone means loneliness or peacefulness.

bitter_truth_ · 2018-10-22T03:30:55+00:00

And lonely doesn't mean you're alone: http://www.myawesomequotes.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/03/Robin-Williams-I-used-to-thing-the-worst-thing-in-life-was-to-end-up-all-alone.jpg

Paladin2903 · 2018-10-22T10:40:35+00:00

Anytime I think I’m lonely, I remember how shitty, hectic, and “noisy” all my relationships were.

By “noisy,” I mean I could barely ever get any rest, it was constant stress, and she was always yapping about some shit we (mostly I) had to do.

Life was not meant to be lived in servitude of women. Men only accept this because they’re fucking BRAINWASHED.

I’m just the type of guy that wants peace and quiet, and to be left the fuck alone for the majority of the day.

When you’re in a relationship, you’ll never get that.

liquidchipz · 2018-10-22T04:14:07+00:00

Congrats man, you’re living the life. I’m working on being able to be okay alone. I went to the movies alone today and watched a scary movie in honor of the season. I plan on making myself a nice meal on Halloween and hanging out alone, alone but happy.

bearinfoxhole · 2018-10-22T07:48:18+00:00

I frequently go for business trips, and if I need company then I just hire an escort. There's no need to spend more than 30 minutes and cuddles anyways. Just plain old fuck.

vwolf800 · 2018-10-22T11:18:59+00:00

There are extroverts and introverts, extroverts REQUIRE company, they lose energy otherwise and recharge in a company of others. Introverts are a completely opposite -- we LOSE energy when we're among people and we recharge when we're alone. All those idiots who yell "lol no gf loser" are most likely extroverts (or people just brainwashed by society into believing that you can't be happy if you don't have an SO) who just simply can't comprehend another side and how is it possible to be happy alone. I stopped paying attention to these people and society's demands overall, because what is good for me and what is good for society/humanity are two very different things.

NoThirst · 2018-10-22T12:24:19+00:00

I had honestly never been "alone" in all my life. Lived with my parents until 18, long line of roommates/ GFs in college, married and started having kids right out of college. The divorce rape took care of that. A year later...I can say I was at my loneliest WHILE married. I love living alone, love making each and every decision affecting my life alone. The only problem I have is eating alone in a "fine dining" situation. I generally avoid that and it's easy as I enjoy cooking...alone.

jamesebstuart79 · 2018-10-22T01:13:34+00:00

Keep on rockin

Helikzhan · 2018-10-22T10:58:56+00:00

You have goals that don't involve women. The problem for some guys is they can't imagine doing anything without one. That's why they're depressed and lonely. It's the social programming that told them they needed a woman around to be happy.

A big part of breaking that social programming is to live alone long enough to realize it's not the woman that makes you happy in the first place.

ziggmuff · 2018-10-22T06:37:33+00:00

It has always made me feel bad for folks that need to do FUCKING EVERYTHING with someone else. Or what, you don't go?

Lame.

I love my friends, but I'll be damned if them not showing up from time to time stops me from having fun on my own.

cleats4u · 2018-10-22T07:34:55+00:00

I went to biketoberfest over the weekend in Daytona Beach alone on my bike. Got to look at some really cool machines, listen to some great music and eat some good food. Talked to some really cool guys about bikes and accessories. Sure their were chicks all over the place with their tits hanging out. But it's really all they have to show and they can't compete with the bikes! I would take a new motorcycle over one of them bitches any day. They were just a side show. That is all women are to me now and it feels great. Thank you MGTOW.

ThirstySasquatch · 2018-10-22T09:53:50+00:00

With regards to travelling with a girlfriend or a wife, you always have to compromise. I dont mind compromising on most things with reasonable people in daily life. But, Im sure as hell not doing it on a trip

gigasimpdeluxe · 2018-10-22T13:03:21+00:00

Am I the only one who actually dislikes eating with others? I like doing things alone in general but especially eating.

eazypeazy18 · 2018-10-22T02:46:06+00:00

You have the lifffeee man!

Linuxllc · 2018-10-22T08:14:52+00:00

I never feel alone. I'm always constantly doing things around my surroundings. So there is no feel of loneliness or hopelessness. My mine is always on the run; for current events and soon future events. What I hate is drama; there is never drama in my life. Some people I think needs drama. Well if you like drama then you're surely won't meet up with peacefulness.

Jonlife · 2018-10-22T13:45:48+00:00

Dating is more of a chore now. You're essentially volunteering donating your time with a chick who is insecure and thinks she can control you with your desire to want to get your rocks off. Dating is a convoluted mess that is only supposed to benefit the helpless womyns, at the expense of the good little simp

0917201813310064 · 2018-10-22T14:17:14+00:00

Have a up vote. OP speaks the truth.

FunkyCannaHigh · 2018-10-22T19:04:53+00:00

You are one of the few to learn this after three relationships.

What I get down voted for is the honest truth: if you cannot be happy alone with yourself, you will never be happy with someone.

Humans are damaged/fallen/imperfect people. (Use whatever phrase you want).

Your partner will eventually let you down and it will happen more than once. It's just human nature and it sucks but welcome to life.

So, if you rely on someone else for your happiness you will be let down multiple times. Do you know what's lonelier than being single? Being in a relationship next to someone you don't like/respect/love.

Your friend (and all the mgtow's out there) need to find what you did...being happy alone. Only then are you ready to be a partner with someone.

huckleberryferry · 2018-10-22T21:00:52+00:00

Alone doesn't mean lonely

Lonely doesn't mean alone.

TheLastMgtow · 2018-10-22T09:26:35+00:00

Do you still buy records? Why not just download music Save your money bro (and also save space)

BRUTAL_MGTOW · 2018-10-22T10:14:42+00:00

Alone doesn't mean lonely

And GYOW doesn't mean you are alone.

badaboomxx · 2018-10-22T14:09:27+00:00

There are people who are happy being alone, I am one of them, and can relate what you think. Most people are simply afraid of it, but if you cannot be happy with yourself, why would you be happy with the company of others?

MonkModeEngage · 2018-10-22T14:33:27+00:00

But eating, going out, and trips alone are amazing.....

Afab67 · 2018-10-22T14:36:01+00:00

I do almost everything alone. Never bothered me as I do not like keeping track of other people.

SmigSays · 2018-10-22T14:49:00+00:00

"Your happiness should never depend on someone else".

Read that somewhere. I forget where. It works for me.

MuleFool42 · 2018-10-22T15:19:17+00:00

Awesome to hear. I'm generalizing but people who are afraid to be alone probably don't like themselves to much.

If you like who you are, you can be alone. People get it backwards, they seek to be with others before being satisfied with who they are as a person. The presence of others delays their development.

Everyone needs the space to grow and accomplish things in life, to self actualize and be independent.

To me, being happy with who you are as a person is the first goal. If you're not happy with yourself, why should others be happy with you? If we're all constantly looking to others for personal happiness and entertainment then we'll never achieve our full potential.

Glad you shared this.

Bestoftherest222 · 2018-10-22T16:07:20+00:00

Alone is the natural state for men, if a man can't be happy alone he is doomed to settle for used up naggy pussy. Women are designed to be herd animals, they can't bare being alone. Females convince beta males to take up a females state of mind, when it comes to "lonelyness" to convince men their old pussy and naggy ways are better than being alone.

SomeoneFtAnother · 2018-10-22T17:03:54+00:00

“...I don’t NEED to out of fear of doing things alone.” Things strikes a cord with me. It’s what being a grown ass man is all about.

Title	Alone doesn't mean lonely
Author	memestocknation
Upvotes	229
Comments	57
Date	October 22, 2018 1:07 AM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
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