I have been following the MGTOW sub for a little while, occasional post or comment. I really like the theory that is behind the mindset. I want to help spread the word and message among men in my life who I think could benefit from the mantra.

But, I struggle to promote the sub because I see a lot of posts on here that also make me cringe. Specifically the absolute hate for all females and constant rants about evil women. They remind me of vagina hat wearing feminists yelling "We are right, they are wrong, all men are evil!"

I like the idea that men don’t “need” to be with a woman to be happy and that men can be much more productive solo than coupled.

Why not live and let live. I might be getting it wrong, but isn’t the ultimate level of MGTOW the going your own way and bettering yourself, NOT investing your mental energy and time into hating women… seems like doing this is investing energy in something that counter productive to the very thing MGTOW stands for.