Dear Incels...

MenGoingTOWin · 2018-08-15T23:41:21+00:00

I made the mistake of clicking "sort by controversial" yesterday and the top 8 posts in there were incel shit.

We don't care that "it's over" for you. That's not even a consideration. It's not even a top 10. It's not even like, "Will I heat up that chicken in the fridge for dinner tonight?" No consideration at all. That's MGTOW.

You're wahhhh women are evil and don't want me.

Why don't you understand how you think? Stop hating and start loving yourself.

bhavv · 2018-08-15T23:22:05+00:00

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Questionable_Incel · 2018-08-16T03:30:06+00:00

As an Incel, MGTOW and Involuntary Celibates are very diverse. It’s pretty obvious one is avoiding women while the other is chasing after women. Incels and MGTOW agree they aren’t the same. The claim originally came from r/IncelTears where they mock both parties.

Incel’s only come here because, truthfully, I don’t speak for all, but we seek guidance and advice. For me personally I envy MGTOW because the idea that you avoid women all together takes courage, and many Incels highlight it as “cope” because they wish they didn’t spend so much time wasting their life away on people who don’t want them.

I’d put it this way... Imagine having a hobby, or doing something you’ve always wanted to do but you feel held back. That’s the way with Incels, once we actually get laid with someone who actually care for us and love us without paying an escort, we’d be MGTOW in no time. It’s an experiment that’s one and done.

As I mentioned before, it takes courage to do what you guys are doing. You have my full respect, and hopefully one day I’ll be part of MGTOW 👏👏

crshdurmomlstngt · 2018-08-15T23:49:02+00:00

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rationalthought314 · 2018-08-16T04:30:34+00:00

Most incels are just a handjob away from being a blue pill simp. They're angry and resentful because they feel they are missing out and the internet has allowed them to coalesce into an angsty cringe-inducing beast. MGTOW are angry because most of us have actually had relationships with women and been burned as a result in one way or another. The difference is we don't necessarily hate women wishing some kind of sick violence on them because they refuse us the pleasure of their nether regions. We hate woman's nature, the system which supports it, the blue pill media which hides it, and ourselves for being gullible to believe in fairy tales but we don't think the path lies in going on a shooting spree but in going our own way and bettering ourselves.

2018-08-15T23:53:03+00:00

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DangZagnut · 2018-08-15T23:23:10+00:00

Incels and feminists both spread their jackasserry here as false flag operations.

2018-08-16T00:56:51+00:00

Amen. And remember that claiming inevitability of AWALT is enough. Now burn that bridge, and leave women alone, as they usually respect your right to being left alone (the one thing that is good in modern women). Focus on yourself, there is lot of possibilities.

Whirrlz · 2018-08-16T01:21:17+00:00

I have been noticing the ramping up of them coming in here and using fucked up memes.

Got2B22 · 2018-08-15T23:32:43+00:00

we have more in common with incels than feminists, no reason to be overly mean to them

they just need to learn to be happy regardless of sex/females, that's what they are here for and they might have some growing pangs

KleinLust · 2018-08-16T00:22:41+00:00

I am a volcel. How about that.

ManIsWalking · 2018-08-16T03:55:21+00:00

I don't want to discourage incels from becoming MGTOW, but they need to learn to give up the game before they can move forward in life.

Incels are the kids that flip over the game board because they are losing.

MGTOW aren't even sitting at the table to begin with.

Million-Suns · 2018-08-16T04:50:34+00:00

Well you say so but if you browse the subreddit, 70% of the threads are talking about women.

I only upvote the posts who show MGTOW's hobbies now. Really tired of having memes about women in here.

This sub should go over the anger phase asap. Nothing wrong with a daily reminder about the trap of being tangled into a gynocentric society, but we don't need a dozen threads about that per day.

riPEEMYFARTBOX · 2018-08-16T02:58:32+00:00

Honestly I'd still rather expose incels to MGTOW.

EnslavedOpethFan053 · 2018-08-16T09:00:43+00:00

I've noticed an ever growing amount of hate for incels around here lately and I'm not a fan to be honest. This is a place where men should be able to come to vent AND NOT be judged by who they are. Incels/virgins should not be shunned away. Everyone stop being so goddamn fucking hateful towards each other. I'm sick of fucking seeing this shit.

Swapnil9 · 2018-08-16T00:46:58+00:00

Become a narcissist. I despise the idea of depending on anyone for anything. Does god need companionship? Heck no.

Jk lol, to hell with the fucking incels. They dont belong in MGTOW. It's for men who have had bad experience with women not for men who have NO experience with women. Because they will never stop worshipping pussy.

2018-08-16T05:07:42+00:00

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2018-08-15T23:20:26+00:00

Dear incels, get the fuck out.

sambaranoff · 2018-08-15T23:21:57+00:00

Amen

Pedromac · 2018-08-16T04:17:47+00:00

Yeah there's a lot of lady hate going on here and I hate what happened to this sub after redpill and incel got shut down. Shit I want a dub related to men's topics.

What happened to guess posting pictures of their cars and their happy bachelor living rooms? I don't give a fuck about memes hating women, that isn't what my world revolves around

KleinLust · 2018-08-16T05:26:15+00:00

I dont believe I am owed sex, theres a difference between thinking you are owed something, and wanting something. I too want equal and fair treatment. I think you can be an incel and simultaneously a MGTOW. Being a MGTOW is all about doing what YOU want, and not letting people shame you into your course in life. Nothing about that is antithetical to being an incel. Saying "you are going about being MGTOW wrong" is trying to shame us into doing what YOU want. I believe you're jumping on the same bandwagon and the media, and trying to group all incels as the same caricature. We are all unique individuals with differing opinions that have common struggles, just as you are.

2018-08-16T08:31:40+00:00

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KleinLust · 2018-08-16T11:36:14+00:00

you think you are owed sex.

It pains me to see this is what even the mgtow crowd accepts as truth. This idea that incels believe they are owed sex is nothing but a reduction to absurdity, so it's easier to make their arguments seem ridiculous. It may be true for some incels, but certainly not for all. What incels are actually trying to do is raise the question: why should some be excluded from normal human relationships only for being different?

However much I disagree with your tone, I agree with your conclusions. It's not healthy to keep blaming and hating, it's better to forget it and move on, go your own way. The reaction I'd like to see from mgtow is not gatekeeping and ridicule, but welcoming and introduction to our ideals.

2018-08-16T02:53:42+00:00

I wasn't under the impression that feeling owed sex was a core aspect of incel though? I thought it was just depressive males whining about being too ugly to get laid and a bunch of people trolling them.

weightlossnojutsu · 2018-08-16T02:47:14+00:00

Volcel(volunteer celibate) here, incels dont think they are entitled to sex, nor do some of them want it, they believe more about mgtow than most of you so called believers,

Make no mistake about it that there are some Chad's here that have shat on incels before In the past over women, karma is simply doing its job by turning your women into money hungry dumb thots, incels have kept some of their dignity, some over here have lost theirs and finally are beginning to take it back, dont lose it by doing the same as the dumbfucks that shat on the lowest of the low.

Just remember that incels are the lowest of the low, and have gotten the worst from society and know that most of them are almost at the top of borderline insanity, and closest to suicide, have some dignity to not post garbage about the victims unless you be the same as those dumbfucks at inceltears,

make no mistake about it, the little guy is the one that always get shat on worse than anyone else, used and abused.

No matter what incels and mgtowers alike are finally starting to gain tools to fight back, mgtow is a source for those tools, /r/incels was one of those that provided us with those same tools to keep to ourselves to GYOW, incels are no different than the rest.

There are many forms of incels also, some think they are entitled, some think they aren't, society is already a cesspool full of shit where the ones that never deserved to have been given the resources for what they were given in the first place if not for some of the nice people that come from /r/incels, but they are still victims of the same curse, karma is finally doing its job by giving back what's was somewhat theirs in the first place, which is their dignity for being nice to the ones that use and abuse them. The chain of motions are already set, and the ones that have been shitting on the little guy is finally going on motion to reveal who the worst of the worst is.

Like I said MGTOW has some of these people, have some dignity and help the ones down below, they are the reason you are above in the first place.

AtoZZZ · 2018-08-16T03:49:41+00:00

I mean, it's in the name. MGTOW is about going your own way. Going your own way means not giving a damn about ass and people who bring you down

2018-08-16T13:13:17+00:00

the thing is, mgtow is the way for incels

i understand that it can be hard for them, but i have hope

2018-08-16T06:30:36+00:00

Well said OP it should be about encouraging each other, sharing tips and advice for getting the most out of life. All this Chad and Stacy bollocks is just sad, as is the they’ll miss us when we’re gone mentality. Let’s keep it civil and delete that shit.

PathToTheLight · 2018-08-16T08:30:49+00:00

Incels need more meditation in their lives to truly see the pussy trap without experiencing it.

Farhandlir · 2018-08-16T15:51:36+00:00

Incels want pussy but can't get any of it.
MGTOWs can get pussy but don't want any of it.

Incels are mostly young inexperienced guys.
MGTOWs mostly have a lot of experience with women.

Incels tend to not be very professionally successful.
MGTOWs are mostly financially successful men.

Incels would kneel and thank a woman for giving them attention.
MGTOWs would simply ask the woman to leave them alone.

Incels want to punish women for not giving them a chance.
MGTOWs don't give a fuck whether women give them a 'chance'.

Incels are terrified by the idea of being alone.
MGTOWs love the idea of being alone.

Some differences, there are many more.

2018-08-16T22:25:45+00:00

My guess is all these incels are really just disguised feminist landwhales lol

crshdurmomlstngt · 2018-08-16T03:12:49+00:00

I don’t mind being compared to incels. But it gets to me when MGTOW is called the male version of feminism.

KleinLust · 2018-08-16T09:08:12+00:00

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KleinLust · 2018-08-16T09:18:50+00:00

In the war against women and feminism, let's not create any enemies. Everyone copes with the lies of society in their own way. Let these men be. If someone is in a state of mind where they worship pussy, show some empathy and love. They have a better chance of changing them than hate.

trappedoutthebando · 2018-08-16T09:26:50+00:00

I think this is the biggest fear for most men when facing the decision to go their own way. A lot of men interpret not chasing pussy as not being able to get it - as some sort of insecurity or flaw. This is probably why this movement is one of the largest, yet, in my opinion, quietest movement there is - because no man is going to go and say to a woman "sorry, I don't like you because I believe all women fall under this generalization" because they won't understand and you'll end up on CNN with a rape accusation.

I think one of the serious red-pills in life is to recognize if your lack of being around women is coming from an inability to communicate with the opposite sex or from having genuinely experienced the opposite sex frequently enough to form a strong opinion on the entire gender. This is why I strongly advocate when I can that someone who is going their own way has had numerous interactions with the opposite sex and isn't just basing their opinion on them being overly shy of women or scared of them. Those who have gone their way know why and have grown just tired of women.

Sure, we may joke about all women being evil and what not but I strongly believe that at the end of the day we are just men who are united under a similar cause that unfortunately, we have to keep to ourselves (or else CNN headline). It's what makes this sub highly enjoyable, especially seeing guys post about their successes after going their own way, getting new hobbies and what not. Makes me happy to know that the path I am going on is not one of failure.

Go your own way brothers =)

PhDinIDGAF · 2018-08-16T09:53:43+00:00

When MGTOW hate on incels, it is being directed at those who come here making posts that encourage self-loathing and the punishment of women and attractive men. It has nothing to do with hating on you because women don't want to have sex with you. So drop the victim bullshit.

This is a MGTOW community. We want men to love themselves, so that they don't need validation from women or anyone else. I'm sorry that you incels don't have a place to wallow in your anger and despair, but you lost it on merit. When your community's answer is to force women to do what you want or hope somebody shoots up the people you believe have wronged you, you deserve nothing.

Now, to the extent that an incel is just "involuntarily celebate," incels can certainly be MGTOW too. Whether women would or would not want to have sex with you stops being relevant when your happiness and self-worth is no longer defined by what women do. Aside from a few "extremists" who think you need experience with women to go your own way, virtually all of us want you to go your own way too. So if you're here trying to get over your anger and change your mindset, you're certainly welcome. If you're here to post the garbage you would have posted on /r/incels, then this is not the place for you.

ConsumingImpulse · 2018-08-16T11:01:28+00:00

Thing is we're all men and and basically have suffered for the same reason, which is women getting away with their bullshit. The reaction just manifests in a different way. Anyone who's ever gone through a dry spell should get it. If you're a "true" MGTOW then you're basically a different kind of incel. Volcel or whatever they call it.

Crispypanties · 2018-08-16T11:30:38+00:00

Dear Incels,

Some of us in the MGTOW community might be bitter--I've got a fairly negative opinion of relationships after a couple of failed marriages, a string of 2-4 year relationships, and 50 or so dalliances ranging from one night stands to affairs lasting a few months. But we're not touchless virgins who lament our fates and thirst after the white picket fence, human contact or even pussy. Nor do we somehow think that we are owed pussy or happiness or anything at all that we ourselves do not control or build on our own.

Many of us are just sick of relationships and are opting out or in the process of opting out. I think both men and women have their problems. I'd rather not deal with women or their problems in my life ever again outside of professional responsibilities. But I certainly don't treat them any differently than I treat men. All people are equal under law after all. That said, I don't think men and women are the same. We definitely are motivated by competing instincts and I think that our thought processes are fundamentally different. Can women achieve the things that men achieve? Who knows? For a long time they never had much of a chance to excel creatively or intellectually or socially. Now that they're encouraged to do so, most of the time they don't give a rat's ass to try.

But the real purpose of MGTOW--you'd probably cynically call it a "cope"--is that we want to control our own destinies. We want to build our own lives for ourselves and for those people we choose to include in our lives. It's about making our own choices rather than have society's expectations stuffed down our throats.

AntiAbleism · 2018-08-16T00:39:33+00:00

Getting rid of women was the best decision I made.

2018-08-16T00:45:36+00:00

If they can't have a pussy, they're trying to get your donnut if you know what I mean hahahha

NietzscheExplosion · 2018-08-16T03:29:04+00:00

I hate tone policing but... you are right.

Nov51605 · 2018-08-16T03:34:57+00:00

AGREED !! Stop that TFL doodz !

K0A0 · 2018-08-16T03:45:45+00:00

I think the fact is that people don't know what an Incel is.

An Incel is, by the textbook definition, someone who thinks that Women owe them something.

MGTOW, we don't believe Women owe us anything. We are going our own way to avoid not only women but people who we think aren't good for our well beings. No one owes us anything.

TheOnlyThing-Sufjan · 2018-08-16T07:34:41+00:00

Good point, ofcourse there is something like red pill rage (god knows I still have it and had it alot) in which you are really not happy with women. But if you keep sticking to hating women and pointing out women are evil you will never move on and start loving yourself and being happy. Its okay to have those negative feelings from time to time, but you are still letting women stand in the way of being happy and going your own way. And even in my most red pill rage I was not about hurting women, or putting women down or in their place or something, I was angry about the situation but knew that having revenge or doing something extreme wasnt going to help in any shape or form. So if you are an angry incel try to finally let go of the idea of pussy and how to get it and not being okay with not getting it. Simply go do something in this world for which you do not need (female) validation, set goals for that and improve, you will be much happier and confident in life, so much even that you dont even bother with the idea of pussy anymore and are strong enough to stay on the rational MGTOW path.

bhavv · 2018-08-16T08:34:01+00:00

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2018-08-16T09:45:42+00:00

yeah, they should keep their shit out of here but you gotta have compassion man. to an incel a woman is like a David Blaine magic trick. it just is incomprehensible to their perception of what is possible.

mgtow is actually being the magician. we know the secrets and don't find anything magical about it because we know what's really going on. once you've fucked a few hot girls and a few not so hot ones, the entire act loses all its glitter. sex can be nice, but man, after about a few dozen times, with almost any girl, it becomes very mundane, and you'd often rather just jack off to make it all a simpler process. then when you get to that zone, you realize the average women brings no personal value in terms of conversation or fun and you were under a spell of pussy juice.

I think we also share some similarities with rage and anger. i've never had a big problem getting laid, had 10+ LTR's. but even with success I find some dynamics of women like beta bux orbiting and chad hypergamy incredibly annoying and it can cause resentment in me. incels also are witness to these things. but then again i'm not too familiar with the whole incel community, do they really feel they are owed sex by women?

Atton_Risk · 2018-08-16T10:09:43+00:00

MGTOW don't worship pussy, incels pray for it and then damn the gods that deny it to them.

Even atheists worship the false god that is woman. This worship blinds men to what is right in front of them. It is a poison and little more than gynocentrism.

Modcory · 2018-08-16T14:18:05+00:00

I'm actually very glad you posted this, and especially glad to see people echoing your opinion in the comments. I found this sub a few days ago and after doing research online to see what MGTOW was all about and found it to align with my feelings pretty well.

But then I started actively browsing this sub and saw a lot of posts and comments that felt like incel rage and depression rather than the MGTOW discussion I had expected. I had thought about unsubbing but if that's not the typical conversation that goes on here then I'll stick around.

2018-08-16T14:22:39+00:00

Great comment. Very true.

2018-08-16T15:11:51+00:00

I wish I could go full MGTOW but I desire pussy too much. But tbh most of my relationships have been more trouble than they were worth. I just don't like wymyn very much at all and I can shit all over them with the incels.

2018-08-16T23:53:32+00:00

Well said

Mgtowmillion · 2018-08-17T02:52:09+00:00

I was an incel till 22

Too focused on survival and success

I despise my mother for making me date i HS.

My current gf wasnt born until after I graduated.

Do your own thing. V is V. You like the woman or not.

Do what you want, PLEASE!! I wish I was told that 20 years ago.

FuckMeFreddyy · 2018-08-24T17:29:05+00:00

Mgtow are honestly more brutal to me. Incels are understanding.

Davidblake6789 · 2018-08-16T04:19:42+00:00

Anyone so consumed by the need for pussy that they identify as an incel and hang out in incel forums really just needs to get snipped to lower the risk and then "get gud" via TRP shit. You may never pull women who look like Kate Beckinsale, but you'll learn to score with women worthy of pump and dump.

MGTOW is ultimately about life satisfaction, and if you're so consumed by the need for pussy that it's destroying your life, then I'd say it's best to just lower your risk with women as far as humanly possible (the risk can't be eliminated, but it can be lowered) and learn to get them. Calling yourself a MGTOW when you're really an incel is a path to life-destroying frustration.

There's no magic cure for lazy and incapable. Even as a MGTOW, it takes some effort to support yourself, and self-actualization is a great project.

DarthSchadenfreude · 2018-08-16T07:24:19+00:00

Incels and feminists deserve each other. A pox on both their houses.

Getting laid is about as hard to achieve as taking a dump. Very shitty social skills and aspergerish for most of my adult life and fairly financially poor until the past decade, and yet I still got plenty of pussy, and some of it decent-looking.

Title	Dear Incels...
Author	KleinLust
Upvotes	489
Comments	217
Date	August 15, 2018 10:47 PM UTC (7 years ago)
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