Ex texted me

user_miki · 2019-12-22T04:14:10+00:00

She is gaslighting you big time.

What a cunt.

bk6830 · 2019-12-22T04:25:20+00:00

She wants to get back together but she wants the freedom to go travel by herself...

Translation: "I want some other dicks in my ass every once in a while, on your dime if possible, without neither guilt nor consequences."

You should marry her. Looks like a winning lottery ticket. Lucky you.

mgtowmonk1234 · 2019-12-22T04:36:28+00:00

Here OP, I'll translate the situation for you:

"Heeeey, babe! Will you finance me while I travel around the globe taking strange dick from random men within hours of meeting them while you stay home and make me more money?! What!? YOU WON'T!? You sexist, controlling, mysoginistic asshole!! FUCK YOU!"

There. You're welcome.

madriverdog · 2019-12-22T04:56:03+00:00

You forgot to say “New phone. Who dis?”

p3p3_sylvia · 2019-12-22T04:00:27+00:00

Fuck that noise. Women freak out when their simp bf’s go to the bar with the guys without asking permission, you know she’s flip shit if you tried traveling alone. If it ain’t cool with you then that’s it, don’t make concessions

DangZagnut · 2019-12-22T03:48:48+00:00

Keep it casual. Fuck or. It, have fun or not, do not give a fuck about her.

She clearly has her own agenda, so get over bitch think and just pump when you want.

As a parallel, take an Uber somewhere. How much do you think about it later?

WoMen should be the same way.

iwanttheblanketback · 2019-12-22T04:18:42+00:00

She sounds like the kind of person to catfish and gaslight you. Block and ghost her.

GreetingsFromErf · 2019-12-22T04:18:45+00:00

Pretty sure she wants the OP to pay for a bunch of stuff while she goes off and gobbles miles of cock.

Don't ever be Beta Bucks. Starfish sex is not worth it. Also, you don't want to catch something that can't be cured.

She's using you. Walk away.

altair43 · 2019-12-22T04:30:41+00:00

I don't think you are redpilled bro...just my opinion.

Why I think so? If you were, you would have already moved on and forgot about her. One chance per person per lifetime. The fact that you are still thinking about your ex and trying to find reasons to get back with her...is making me think that.

It reads like "Wow! My ex texted me again. I am a important person now! She's asking me get back with her...but I am supposed to be redpilled...let me go and ask this reddit forum I am a member of and see if I can get back with her and still maintain this red pill status". I am pretty sure you are asking here just to get a confirmation on what you have already decided.

Sorry to be blunt but that's what came to my mind. You can take it with a grain of salt.

Mgtowindia0 · 2019-12-22T04:21:29+00:00

After her riding the CC you wish to travel with this Hoe ?

Cxnnxr09 · 2019-12-22T05:32:46+00:00

Let her go , using her own money.

Prototype_Grendel · 2019-12-22T03:47:10+00:00

Obviously she brought up the whole "insecurity / trust issue" thing up.

Why is everyone so quick to bring that stuff up when a guy is uncomfortable with something in the relationship?

Because its a shaming tactic that used to work when men werent allowed to talk about their feelings.

Personally, i find it hilarious she wants to get back with you, and is calling you insecure while doing it.

Stay strong brother

me-dgaf · 2019-12-22T04:02:06+00:00

Dude, I was in a hostel in Prague last year.

Those backpacking women have more miles on them than 40-year-old 747 airliners. Alone, in foreign countries where all restraints are off, sleeping in mixed rooms, alcohol, an attitude of "live it up for a year or two."

You do the math.

Flugzeug113 · 2019-12-22T07:52:15+00:00

Of course she wants to get back together man! Look at what time of year it is; we are days before Christmas. I guarantee her infatuation will dissipate immediately following new years

MickeyS1982 · 2019-12-22T07:54:45+00:00

Stefan Molyneux in one of his phone interviews with a couple where the woman cheated on her boyfriend. He is a beta, pushover, simp. He had no boundaries. She got drunk went to a game and fucked some guy on the way back. But one thing that Stefan said after the boyfriend said I can't control her. You can't control anyone but your self, if you try it can only be done by force or coursion. The only thing you can do is have shit you can live with and shit you can't live with. And never move the goal post. Walk away when the line is crossed. For me it would be my SO going to Vegas on a girls trip, cheating(even sexting), hanging out with her exs, withholding sex. Etc. Do not let them shame you. When she says she wants to travel, wish her luck, tell her that its over.

ZeroBlink · 2019-12-22T03:58:03+00:00

Insecurity /trust thing is codename for I wanna fuck someone else.

Otherwise why would anyone even CARE if you're insecure. Even more reson for her to invite you to lessen your insecurity and develop trust. Trust is gained , not just given for free.

But ... she doesn't want it. So there is another hidden motive at play.

Krazyrobus · 2019-12-22T05:44:42+00:00

As everyone says keep it casual. If she brings up the controlling line, you simply tell her you have standards for commitment and vacationing alone doesn't fit them, so it's her choice to decide whether it's the travelling or commitment, it won't be both.

RoboMandrake · 2019-12-22T07:14:23+00:00

Oh, I don't know...as long as she's paying for her travel and all your living expenses while she's away its probably a-ok. Unsupervised me-time so you can 'find yourself'. She does plan on taking good care of you while she's away, right? /s

BertTheWelder · 2019-12-22T23:16:56+00:00

She doesn’t love you. She wants the stability of being in an LTR but the thrill of being able to meet and fuck strangers.

Just ghost her. Trust me, no other option will lead to a happy resolution. Ghosting will be the least worst.

She legit wants you to think she’s yours while she’s traveling and living the single life. That’s what she wants. Don’t fall for it.

LuvJoyMuzik · 2019-12-22T05:22:09+00:00

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holddadoorhodor · 2019-12-22T14:28:19+00:00

Simple as this. SHE IS AN EX FOR A REASON. Ghost

Gladstone61 · 2019-12-22T19:02:53+00:00

She needs somebody to water her plants and pay her phone bill

usehername6969 · 2019-12-22T19:29:05+00:00

I had three exes travel to a foreign country without me. They all cheated.

Cantcuckthiss · 2019-12-22T03:48:49+00:00

The fact that your asking this question shows you’re not red pilled, just a blowjob away from the plantation.

Trust_No_Bitches · 2019-12-22T03:53:33+00:00

It's just a Hoover. She's only looking to suck you back into a relationship because she has no other options and she wants you to be her backup option. Don't fall for it because she will not appreciate you of you say yes.

It also sounds like she's not ready to be in a relationship because she wants to be free to sleep around with men in other countries. Women aren't that loyal, and they'll take any opportunity abroad to sleep around thinking you're never going to find out.

If I were you I would just block her not pay this any more attention. Because she's not been holding out for you, she's been sleeping around, and she has other guys she's talking too. You're never the only bull in her bull pen, and you've already had your turn with her. It's someone else's turn to fall for her bullshit and think he's won the prize.

scaramellozzi · 2019-12-22T11:18:27+00:00

Why bothering to be in a relatioship when she gave sex for free to everybody else?

I would have pointed this out to her.

sootlord · 2019-12-22T11:21:42+00:00

You are not redpilled yet, you just took the kiddie cough drop size.

Anyways. Yeah bitches do this, they have no other options and look for beta bucks while she travels and gets on the carousel.

PsychoticChimichanga · 2019-12-22T11:27:21+00:00

Ignore her till her brain fries, and she jumps off a bridge.

Waiting for an update ASAP

Arcturix · 2019-12-22T11:37:34+00:00

Don't even play this out.

Ghost her and move on with your OWN life.

liberules · 2019-12-22T15:16:36+00:00

tell her that you're traveling, and if she wants to meet you, she should fly to catch up. tell her you'll be on some specific island in micronesia. even send her pics of "welcome to micronesia!" and pics of you at the beach with the saturation way off. tell her what hotel you're "staying at" and that she can come and you've already got it covered, and that she should meet you there if she's really serious.

TheObelisk · 2019-12-22T15:48:36+00:00

In that situation, you're not being insecure, you're being smart.

ckitano88 · 2019-12-22T15:51:46+00:00

If she doesnt want to travel with you(except short trips for sanity) she doesnt want to take you through life.

Shes being manipulative. No different then the woman who accuses you of cheating but actually cheating

thatMGTOWguy · 2019-12-22T16:40:09+00:00

I want a relationship but I’ll keep riding foreign dicks. Do what you want with that OP. You’re gonna come back here anyway

ronoda12 · 2019-12-22T16:52:48+00:00

She wants to cuck you. Pretty insulting IMO

Title	Ex texted me
Author	MGTOW_IN_JAPAN
Upvotes	62
Comments	56
Date	December 22, 2019 3:42 AM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/MGTOW/comments/edzymo/ex_texted_me/
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